This article is not a beginner's how-to guide, but as the title states, it is a how-to guide intended for those looking for ways to sexually pleasure yourself or lover even better. Before I explain how to pleasure yourself and lover BETTER sexually, let us first review how to pleasure yourself or lover (in the first place) and define sexual pleasure.

Pleasuring yourself or lover is stimulating the nerves or nerve centers connected to the main pleasure center of the brain located in the hypothalamus. "Sexperts" refer to these nerve centers as erogenous zones. Thus, for the purpose of this article, let us define, sexual pleasure as the stimulation of erogenous zones intensely enough to eventually produce sexual orgasm.

So, how do you pleasure yourself and lover even better sexually? Simple answer, you stimulate the erogenous zones better. The hard part, which really won't be so hard after reading this article, is how to make it "even better" than before? Remember, erogenous zones are nerve centers so the question really is: How do you stimulate the nerves better? Well, it is not rocket science, you must simply upgrade your stimulator.

Many people believe and have stated that no one can pleasure them better than they can pleasure themselves. While that may hold true for many people who have made sexual pleasure their favorite pastime, however; even the most skilled pleasure seeker or lover cannot compete with the capabilities of a "sexpertly" designed and engineered sex toy.

If you have never tried using a sex toy on yourself or lover, then the first thing you need to do is to decide to try it. Many people are afraid that the toy will make them or their lover stop wanting the real thing. Believe me, no inanimate object can ever fulfill the primal, emotional need that we all have to be physically and physiologically connected to another human being. However, sex toys are designed and engineered to reach and stimulate erogenous zones better than you or your lover ever could physically.

Again, this is not a beginner's how-to guide so you should already know what you or your partner likes, but by no means does this imply that you should not explore new and unused erogenous zones. There are sex toys designed to massage, stimulate and vibrate erogenous zones that you never knew that you or your lover had, but if you or your lover have never used a sex toy aid before, the next thing that you want to do is research. Do not just go out and buy the hottest, new best-selling toy; instead, start out with a sex toy that stimulates what you know you or your partner likes. Do not buy the most inexpensive toy for your first toy either because most of the time, you get what you pay for, and an initial bad experience could sadly deprive you of the intense pleasure you so richly deserve. There are hundreds, if not thousands, of sex toy devices to stimulate whatever tickles your fancy so you should not just try one toy and call it a day. Your best option is probably to look for pleasure kits with a variety of sex toys designed for what pleases you and/or your lover. This is probably the most convenient way to try a good sampling of toys designed to stimulate your pleasure zones.

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