Finally, start out slow and work your way up. Many people make the tragic mistake of upgrading too far, too fast, and then get turned off with the toy because the toy was "too" something. As with any upgrade, or anything you have never tried before, there is going to be some learning curve before you become familiar and comfortable with it and can then take full advantage of the benefits of the upgraded features. I like to use the analogy of people starting a new physical fitness program to feel better about themselves. Despite several standard warnings to start out slow and not overdo it, most people always overdo it the first time out, and then give up the program before they really give it a chance to work because it did not feel good at first. However, for those that do not overdo it, or give it a chance to work even though it did not feel so good at first, these are the people that really feel good and glad about just knowing all the benefits they could have been missing out on, but are now feeling much better about themselves and how good their decision to give it a chance turned out. So start out gradually, work your way up to the advanced levels, and give it a chance, even if it does not work or feel even better at first because any new sex toy will probably take some getting used to at first, but as with any new recreational activity, once you get the hang of it is when the real fun starts, and then you can hardly wait for the next time you get to play.

Keep in mind that, as with all toys, naturally you will start to gravitate toward a favorite, but avoid just settling upon a favorite toy and that is all you ever play with because eventually you will want to create your own kit (toy box) of high-quality pleasure providers. Variety is the spice of life, and when it comes to sexual pleasure, variety is the lifeblood of a good sex life.

So there you have it, how to sexually pleasure yourself and/or lover even better. If you do not already incorporate sex toys in your sex play, decide to try it. Next, do a little research so you can start creating your own pleasure kit based on sex toys designed to pleasure your and/or your lover's preferred erogenous zones. Then, start out slow and work your way up, this way it keeps getting better, and even better with each new upgrade.

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