Congratulations you have completed step one.

Gradually start to talk to everyone at the table, but never forget to talk to the one who gave you the chance to sit with them in the first place.

After finishing your drink with the ladies, you can begin to move around the table (not physically) just hold your hand out for a different girl to dance with. Do not bother to ask them, simply hold out your hand.

Two or three dances later, offer to buy the next round of drinks (not every round of drinks) after all you are just a friend.

Now on to step two.

You now have earned the opportunity to ask the girl you first were attracted to for a dance. And, she won’t refuse to dance with you, you have ignored her for at least ½ an hour. We do not like being ignored - she has been watching you and has seen you are both interesting and are available… In addition, you are a challenge. WE DO LIKE A CHALLENGE!

Step three.

Begin to concentrate more on the girl you like. Again though, continue to pay attention to the woman who brought you to the table (figure of speech).

The next time you are on the dance floor with your chosen lady, ask her if you can take her for coffee later, or for her phone number (you might even offer her your phone number). Most of the time she will do one of the three.

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All of the above will work better if you are also with a friend, if that is the case do not make it obvious.

Go through the first part of step one by yourself, then have your friend walk past the table. In a nonchalant way, say something like ’Hey Sam, I did not know you were going to be here tonight, come here and meet my new friends!’ Introduce him to the girls, say grab a chair, and join us. Turn and look around the table saying ’If that’s OK with you girls?’ It will be!

But, If one should object, say 'it's OK ladies, he is a friend of mine'. He's sitting by now!

Chances of you getting the girl you want just increased. Better ODDS!

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When you just walk up to a girl with the normal approach, you can expect the results you have been getting.

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Guy says: What seems to be one of the most complicated issues for any male is the fact that they base almost every thing on the girl’s physical appearance.

Girl: The answer to that is if she is walking around, she is absolutely there to meet someone.

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Guy says: If she is dressed in, a pair of jeans and flat healed shoes is she not serious about meeting a man. Or maybe she wants to meet someone, but she wants a man to assess her by her intelligence instead of her appearances?

Girl: The answer then is still, if she is walking and not sitting down with a drink in her hand, she is definitely there to meet someone. You may get the opportunity to find out later if she is smart or dumb as a frog.

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Guy makes the statement: 'Ladies the next time a guy that you are not interested in comes up to you at a bar or nightclub, will you try on some level to understand why he may have misunderstood your signals‘.

Girl says: 'We know what you want and there is NO Misunderstanding on Our Part'.

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Try these methods of meeting the woman of your dreams the next time you are in a nightclub or bar - You will have a much better chance!

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