Life is colorful. As we grow, we learn many things about life. Some of these lessons are easy, and some are difficult. What is the best way to learn them? Some people believe that they can learn best by listening to the advice of others, while some believe that it is better to learn through personal experience . And both methods have their own advantages. Specific as follows:

First, learning by listening to others, we have the benefit of learning from others' mistakes and being able to avoid them. We can take the advantage of the experience and wisdom of our friends , family and all around us. They will help us to make correct decisions and avoid serious errors. What's more, the people who know us well can advise us effectively because they understand our strengths and weakness. At the same time , sometimes they are able to see situations more objectively than we are.

Second, learning through doing ,we have the advantage of gaining meaningful experience, we will no doubt that remember the lessons we learn when we enjoy the rewards or suffer the consequences. Moreover, we can often develop other skills through personal experience and can learn from our mistakes.You know, no two people are exactly alike. Therefore, what family and friends think may be suitable for them, but not appropriate for us.

The last but not least, given a choice between these two ways of learning about life, I would still choose the former , learning through the advice of others. Because I believe I should take advantage of all the resources available, and the experience of all my friends and family. A famous adage says, "Rivers are able to reach the destination, because it knows how to avoid obstacles."

In conclusion, I find advantages in both ways of learning. Although I prefer to learn by listening to the advice of others, that does not mean I will forgo learning through my own experiences. It does mean, however, that I will approach new experiences with the added benefit of my family and friends' good advice. I want to say, life belongs to you, you should according to your own desire to live!