In this rather brief guide to male chastity I want to cover some of the most pressing and critical issues about the lifestyle from the position of couples just getting started with it.

The reason I want to do this now is when I took my first steps on this path, I frequently found I was lost, confused, puzzled and even a bit frightened by the mass of differing, contradictory, and, in my opinion, harmful information you're likely to come across.

So in this brief Guide, I'll just summarise the most important points but cover them in sufficient detail to get you started.

Begin at the Beginning

Before we start, it's important to understand having a chastity husband is nothing new, not "bad" and is certainly nothing for you to be fret over, whether you're a man who's coming to terms with his needs (and maybe even fighting with them), or a wife whose husband has revealed his need for male chastity to you and you're seeking advice.

First, let's look at what we usually mean when we discuss chastity. In everyday life we generally treat chastity and celibacy as being the same. For our purposes, though, in this basic male chastity guide we'll assume there are some significant differences:

Chastity: what we usually mean is chastity in addition to orgasm denial. So what we're not suggesting is simply not making love or engaging in sexual activity. Quite the reverse: spouses who live a male chastity lifestyle generally find they are not only enjoying increased sexual activity, but find themselves actually enjoying it much more than they ever thought they could.

What we are talking about is the wife taking control of her lover's climax and not allowing him to reach one unless she says he can, even if you're getting him to please you in different ways not involving penetrative sex, or even if you are making love, not permitting him to orgasm.

As you work your way through this male chastity guide, you'll begin to get an idea why a man would desire this, why you would want to give it to him, and the pleasure in doing so for both of you.

Celibacy, on the other hand, is where you just don't engage in sexual activity, perhaps because you're without a partner, or you're unable to have sexual relations for whatever reasons, or you've taken a vow of celibacy or perhaps there could be another reason we can't even begin to imagine. Interestingly, someone who's celibate may well have more orgasms than someone who's living the male chastity lifestyle, just because a celibate man can masturbate, but a chaste man can't.

I'll say more about celibacy in a moment and why, if you're celibate yet still in a relationship, male chastity possibly is not the right option for you.

Whom Is Male Chastity Best For?

I'll go out on a limb here and say almost any fundamentally sound relationship can benefit from male chastity, and that includes gay couples (perhaps surprisingly!). The reasons are at the same time both complicated and simple as you'll discover in this male chastity guide.

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