The process to get together with your ex doesn't have to be hard, but it has to be effective. Today, you will discover what has to be done first right after the separation - that is accepting your break up. Yes, it may be hard for you to accept your break up, but your relationship can't continue the way it used to. You simply have to accept what has happened and move on to plan on rebuilding your new relationship.
To illustrate it differently, imaging, that your relationship is a building that has collapsed, and now you have to rebuild it, starting from its foundation. Looking on the bright side though, you are actually in advantage of doing that because you know the weak points of the old building. And now you can reevaluate its structure and start to build it again, making it stronger than ever before.
I will show you the path a bit later, but for now let's come back to your first step.
A new start is better to begin with taking a break for a few weeks, especially If your break-up happened not long ago. Don't try to convince your ex to get back together immediately. This is a common mistake that most people make in this situation. This won't make any good. In contrast it will push your ex away from you even farther.
You want to show your ex that you are okay with your breakup, not happy, but OK. When you do this, it will eliminate a large amount of the tension and stress between your ex and you - that has been piled up until now. Both of you need time to think about your relationship, and this break will help to do that.
Let's not exclude the possibility that your ex will realize that they still love you, and will start looking for a way to get back with you. And that's what you want to start happening, don't you? Don't assume that it will never happen. You'll never know until you give it some time and see. There are specific signs telling you that your ex has missed you. And we'll come to that in more details in my other lessons.
For now, take a break and do not contact your ex, no matter how tempting it can be! Give it some time. Your wounds of separation are still fresh, both of you need time to let it heal. And only then you will step forward wisely - start the process of reunion, and build up your relationship to a new level.
Now, you may say that it's easy to say, relax and wait, but how can you put yourself at ease? The secret is that your break time has to be pleasant and at the same time useful. This time won't be wasted as you may think. It will, actually, help you to get your ex back. And I will tell you exactly how to do it in my next lesson.
I hope you have found this useful, and if you want to know more, go to http://www.ReunionMadeEasy.com/free, where you'll find out where to get my other lessons absolutely free.
Thank you and I'll see you there.