In life we make decisions and sometimes not the right ones. In your case, breaking up with your ex may have not been your smartest decision and now you regret it and want your ex back.

These sort of things happen… people are often confused and make some irrational decisions and then regret them. You may have had a phase, some personal problems or there was even a misunderstanding between you too and you ended breaking up with your ex. Now let’s focus on getting your ex back after you broke up with her/ him.

When you broke up with your girlfriend / boyfriend you didn’t realize what you were doing and probably broke up his / her heart. This is the main thing you have to focus on: make up for your mistakes and prove to him/her those were not your intentions.

Your ex may now be having an awful time and can’t get over the fact that you crushed their heart so he or she may need some time to recover. What I’m saying here is be patient and stay by her side all along the healing process to show her that you care and you want her to be better; after all, patience and friendship are essential in getting your ex back.

The main idea is to get back into their heart slowly and efficient. So, talk to him / her and ask them to be close friends and try to hang out more often. Soften your ex’s pain, show them that you couldn’t do such a thing to them again and the rest will follow.

You know your ex, her customs and preferences so use this in your advantage: make her feel comfortable, secure and take ahold of her / his feelings. Make them believe you won’t hurt them again and you’ll be careful regarding their emotions.

Another important aspect is to put emphasis on the little details because they’re the ones that make a difference. If your ex sees you a better caring person and that you take into consideration the small things they talk about or do good things will happen. They’ll be mentally satisfied, feel much more comfortable and they’ll slowly open their heart and welcome you back in. It will be all a matter of time…

There are a lot of other details for you to take into consideration such as not pushing the limits when you’re in this delicate situation, not wanting to jump right back to sex or not understanding some messages that they’re trying to transmit via subtle phrases or actions.

I really hope this helped you get back together with your ex.