Older women have plenty going for them, such as experience and often a very high sex drive. Many of them are willing to pay their way and for them a younger man can be a status symbol and will have the stamina to satisfy them. The only real drawback of a younger man for the older woman is the risk of particularly childish behaviour, so guard against it. On the other side of the coin however an older woman looking for a younger man is looking to have a good time. So, if you uncover the secrets of how to pick up older women, you'll be in for a good time too and you can be provocative and forward.

These days older women are frequently in great shape and they'll amaze you in bed, so how to attract the ones you want? Given that you want one who is fit places to look are badminton and tennis clubs, indeed any sporting club that's reasonably physical and not too male dominated. One of the best ways to find them is through dancing, salsa, jive and ballroom dancing clubs are often frequented by glamorous older women who have great bodies and like to show it off. Frequently they're looking for a lover as much as you are looking for them! Dancing with a partner gives physical contact from the outset which is great for getting rid of barriers.

If you want to know how to pick up older women, then imagine yourself in her shoes; she is the older woman and granted she wants a younger partner but she does not want to feel old. Keep off the age topic and let her know how sexy and attractive she is, use stronger language such as horny and so on if you get the impression she's up for hearing it and get her turned on and anticipating sex with a younger stud, ie you! Once you've got her excited at the thought then frequently she'll suggest when and where but don't be afraid of inviting her back to your place.

Once you've got her into bed you've got to be sensitive to what it is she wants which can be tricky. Some older women relish the idea of taking a younger partner under her wing and teaching him about sex, if you demonstrate you know too much already you kill the fantasy. Others are looking for a red-hot lover, so ensure you can get yourself together several times a night or make it last for a long time. Make sure you leave her thinking how right she was to go for a younger man and not "oh for a man with some sensitivity and experience"! Don't brag about your conquests but do put yourself about, an older woman who prefers younger men is going to know you're not going to settle down in the short term and that's probably not what she's looking for either, so if you really want to know how to pick up older women, get out there and practice, the more you practice, the more you'll succeed so why not go for it?