The 5 Secrets of Guys Who Always Get the Girl

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  • Author Bellaisa Filippis
  • Published December 3, 2010
  • Word count 877

You may be wondering if some guys just have a magical ability to pick up women and keep their interest but the truth is they just know some secrets about women that other guys don't know. If you want to be the guy who gets the girl then it only makes sense to use their secrets to your advantage!

Here are 5 secrets of guys who always get the girl.

  1. They Present Themselves in the Right Way

First impression is everything and these guys know how to rock it. They don't look desperate but they don't look uninterested; They appear to be somewhere in between.

If you are running up to women declaring your love for them or telling them how hot they are and how much you want to get to know them then you are airing a sense of desperation from yourself and that is not an attractive quality.

On the other hand, if you try to play it too cool to the point of them not even knowing your are there then they may get the idea that you are not interested in them at all.

You have to show some interest without laying all your cards on the table. Leave her with something about yourself that she will want to know more about and you can bet that she will make that happen.

  1. They Make Eye Contact With Her

If you watch a guy who knows what he's doing you will see that he always maintains some sort of eye contact. Even when she looks away he will regain the eye contact in some way.

Eye contact may seem like no big deal to you but it's huge to a woman. Eye contact tells them a lot about you, like whether you are nervous or really interested or just messing with them. It also shows them that your attention is completely on them which will indicate to them a sincere interest in them as a person.

Eye contact is pretty much the number one thing that she will look for when deciding whether you are attractive to her or not and whether she wants to pursue you.

Practice your eye contact and use it on women to get their attention and curiosity about you as well as an interest in knowing more.

  1. They Make Her Feel Good About Herself

Guys who get the girl know how to compliment her and make her feel good about who she is and how she looks. Any guy that can make a woman feel good about herself will have a huge advantage over any competition that happens to be around.

Don't be cheesy by using crazy pick up lines that compare her to the stars or get perverted by telling her how hot her boobs look; just keep it real and make her feel good about herself by complimenting her subtly.

  1. They Show Their Positive Side To Her

Guys who get the girl don't talk about their problems or complain about their issues to a girl they are picking up. Instead they talk about what is happening in a positive light or what will happen in a positive light.

Being positive is a huge attraction factor to women as they are looking for someone who can make them feel good about life and not bring them down in it.

So keep the negativity to yourself and let her see your positive outlook on life.

  1. They Take Action

Whether it is to approach a woman or to get a future date or even just to keep the conversation going they take action to do it all. They do not sit around and wait for her to make the first move and they do not let their fear of rejection hold them back from asking her out on a date - They just go for it!

You may see many women walk up to these men and think that they have not done anything to take action but you are most likely wrong. They may have initiated the meeting by making the eye contact first or by doing something with their body that gave her a signal of interest in her. They know what they want and they find a way to make it happen.

Don't let fear of rejection get in the way of taking action. Women love being approached and they love a man who is not afraid to take the reins.

What You Need To Remember About These Secrets:

The thing to remember with all 5 of these secrets is that if you use them wrong you can easily cross the line into being creepy. For instance if you use eye contact the wrong way she may think you are a serial killer instead of a guy who is interested in her, and if you are trying to take the reins and talk over her or don't listen to her suggestions then you can become arrogant and cocky. So don't go overboard with these secrets but instead learn how to use them subtly so she doesn't even realize you are using them and can't help but be attracted to you for your natural ability to attract women. Then watch other guys wonder how you always get the girl.

Bellaisa is the owner of Pleasure Her Tonight at http://www.pleasurehertonight.com, a website dedicated to men and men's issues with women.

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