You may think it’s impossible to ‘make’ a woman do anything, but that’s only because you have probably been going about it the wrong way. Once you understand that there is a way that will make her want to please you in every way possible, and there is a way that will make her want to not please you – ever, then you will be able to use that knowledge to your advantage.

Making Her Please You Outside of the Bedroom

The rule is that if you want her to please you then you have to please her. If you want her to stop nagging at you or stop complaining about you or want to cook you a dinner that you love, then you have to make her feel good about YOU. Meaning if she isn’t happy with you and the way you treat her, then she is not going to want to do anything for you that will make you happy.

You can do this by making your relationship strong with communication and validation.

Communicating with her on a daily basis will bring your relationship closer by adding trust, intimacy, and a sense of companionship. Communicating involves talking about you and your day, and listening to her when she talks about hers. If you find that you have a hard time listening then try to remove distractions (like TV) while you are listening, and try to picture the words she is saying as if they were playing out in your own TV program. If you can visually see what she is saying, then you will also hear what she is saying.

Validating her means acting on those things you hear her say. For instance, if she’s talking about how long she had to stay on her feet today, then give her a foot rub! If she’s not feeling good about herself, then make her feel good. If she is sad, then give her a hug. By showing her that you understand what she is saying and you would like to help her feel good she will instantly feel closer to you, and happy with you.

Once she is getting the attention she deserves and craves from you then she will give you all the attention you need, and she will do what she can to please you as well.

Making Her Please You inside the Bedroom

This is pretty much the same rule as above. If you can really please her in the bedroom then she will want to please you as well. That means that she will do those crazy things that you want to do just to please you. Well, there is a limit, but you will get way more than if you don’t please her.

Learn everything you can about her body. What makes her sigh? What makes her relax? Does she like it rough or not? What are the spots that make her melt? Understand what she likes in bed and give her that satisfaction.

Foreplay is a huge part of her enjoying herself in the bedroom. If you try to get straight to sex then you may be risking her not having any sort of fun – which of course means no pleasure for you either. Learn the art of foreplay with a woman and use it!

If you haven’t given her an orgasm yet then you will want to study up on how to do so. If you can make a woman orgasm, and combine that with pleasing her before the orgasm, then she will want to please you. She will be more likely to take control and initiate a sexual encounter. She will be more likely to say yes when you ask her to play out a fantasy that would please you. She will also be more likely to crave pleasing you without you even doing anything!

Want that? Then meet her needs both outside and inside of the bedroom. Once you start doing it you receive it back tenfold.