Being in love and being married is not quite the same thing I would say. Being in love is when you you don’t necessary need to be married in order to find happiness in the relationship with your partner. Some people think that getting married will make their partner stay with them forever. Well that is just so wrong, not because you’re married doesn’t mean you will be happy for the rest of your life with him or her. Being in a relationship and being married will bring you a lot of problems and situations where you’re going to wish you were single.

Only the people that find true love and understand how to deal with every situation will be happy in their marriage and relationship life. Finding the right advice for the right situations and problems is extremely valuable in order to find happiness where you want it to be.

So if you’re asking yourself How to save my marriage? Then you need to look around searching for the right advice for the situation you’re in. Love has a lot of tricks and complications to it. It is not easy to understand love but it is also not hard to look for help and try the best you can to make it work. If you really and truly love your partner and want to have a beautiful and healthy relationship, you will do whatever it takes to do so right?

When you’re going through hard times with your wife or husband, it is more likely to ruin part of you’re marriage and your relationship with her or him. But if you know what to do and find a solution to every problem then you will be happy for the rest of your life, trust me.

Sometimes we spend so much time with each other and well that will most likely bring arguments because EVERYBODY needs their space and some time to find inner happiness in order to give some one else happiness. You need to be happy with yourself first before you even try to make someone else happy. That’s a true fact that you need to think about.

If you can’t handle yourself what makes you think you would be able to handle someone else or that someone trying to handle you?

Well it’s never going to work like that. You need to understand and see what you can improve from yourself in order to avoid arguments, fights or any other problems you might go through with your wife or husband really often.

Spend some time apart and you will see how everything just settles great. You need to trust each other first of course because if there is not trust then I don’t know what to tell you, you might have some major problems and probably will need to seek professional help. If there is not trust in the relationship, you’re not going to be able to spend some time apart from each other. Instead of cooling things down between you two, with no trust, spending time apart from each other will only bring some more problems.

So work on your trust before you take the next step giving each other some space to breath and cool down when things are falling apart.