Flirting is one of those really broad words that doesn't really tell you a whole lot about what you are supposed to actually say and do. If I were to suggest to you that you need to flirt with more women if you want to become better at dating and attracting women in general, it still doesn't actually tell you much about what that means. What some guys consider to be flirting, most women interpret as the guy just trying to be nice and if that is what she thinks, then it does not have quite the effect that you want it to, right?

Well, I am going to get a little more specific and identify 3 crucial flirting mistakes that you do not want to do. That way, you will have a much better understanding of what you should do when you want to flirt with a woman and make her feel those sparks of attraction.

Here are 3 crucial flirting mistakes that you do not want to make:

1. You do not want to make the mistake of running off lines to a woman.

What I mean by this is, sometimes you will be in a club or a bar situation and overhear a guy trying to flirt with a woman, and all he really is doing is running off a bunch of lines and compliments to her. All this does is give her the impression that you are unoriginal, probably overeager, and it has an almost artificial feel to it. Leave those lines at home, and instead give her a much more organic flirting experience and that alone will make a lot of difference in the response that she gives to you.

2. You do not want to make the mistake of having weak body language.

The actual words that you use in a conversation have only a small part in what you make her think and feel about you. More than anything, your body language feeds her the real story, the real you. If you are flirting with a woman and trying to come off as being confident and playful, but your body language is closed off and tense, then that is what she is going to react off of more than whatever words that you use.

3. You do not want to make the mistake of turning it into a show to impress her.

While it is always good to come across as an entertaining kind of guy, you don't want to turn it into some kind of a show where you are trying really hard to impress her. When you do this, it gives off that vibe that you need her attention, and to be honest, most of the things that guys assume would impress a woman... do the exact opposite.