When you have gone through a breakup with your girlfriend, it can be easy to lose your self esteem and your hope at making things better. Did you also realize that it can be just as easy to get her back? It's true. While most men will devote their time and energy to the loss of their ex girlfriend, the ones that succeed will instead spend that same time and energy on more productive ways to attract her back.

;And in the end, they are the ones that will end up with the girl. Wouldn't you rather for this to be YOUR story?

;Here's how it can happen:

;1. When a girl breaks up with a guy, the number one reason is that she has lost her attraction for him. While this can seem to be the end, you can easily rebuild her attraction for you. See, most guys first reaction is to do more things that will make her feel even less attraction. Things like hounding her for attention, acting like a total wuss when they are around her. These are not things that trigger a woman's attraction. Not in the least bit. So, don't do them.

;2. Your ability to move on IS attractive to your ex girlfriend. Being able to move on and get on with your life is precisely one of the many things that WILL trigger her attraction for you. I remember talking to a female friend of mine who had just broken up with a guy who was awful to her. And he had moved on and was dating another woman. And you know what? This friend of mine talked about him like she wanted him even more than when they were together!

;3. Working without a plan to attract her back is like giving up altogether. To do anything in life and be successful at it, you NEED a plan. Nothing about this is any different when it comes to getting back with your ex girlfriend. You have to be able to work with a plan to attract her back. Unless of course, you don't mind watching her date other guys while your heart is breaking.