Almost every child is furnished with a copy of Aesop's Fables to read and appreciate during the course of growing up. Some of those fables we remember vividly whilst others fade to the dim recesses of the backs of our minds. Some we appreciate immediately whilst others don't quite hit the mark until some later point in time.
One which always stands out in my mind is where the sun and the wind have a contest to see who is the strongest and their goal is to make a traveler take off his coat in the quickest time. The wind blows and blows and yet no matter how hard he tries, the traveler merely hugs his coat around himself more closely. The sun on the other hand easily gets the traveler to take off his coat as he very soon feels too hot with it on.
The moral of the story is that kindness effects more than severity. We often find ourselves acting in a way which achieves the opposite of that which we desire. We don't mean to do so, but somehow our instinctive behavior can at times work against us.
For example, it is all too easy to shout at a loved one when you are angry; not angry at them but angry at something quite separate. In reality your greatest desire is to be soothed, but that support is a little unlikely to be forthcoming after you have yelled in their direction. They are more likely to disappear very quickly into another room and let you cool down in solitude.
In relationships many people inadvertently push others away. One who is afraid of being rejected is often the person who actually does the rejecting. You offer a cold shoulder to those who attempt to befriend you because of your own hidden doubts and fears.
It is helpful to think of every emotion as a transmitter of an energy signal. The type of signal you give out, you will tend to get back. What goes around comes around. If you treat others with kindness, love and respect you will generally receive the same in return. Similarly if you build walls to keep people out, only the most persevering will attempt to traverse those barriers that you have erected.
To attract luck, kindness and love into your life you have to open your mind to these emotions and transmit signals into the atmosphere which act as magnets to that which you desire. Like the sun that easily gets the traveler to remove his coat, you will attract things that are good and sunny into your life by the very simply process of opening your mind to the things that you want.
People who are serious about attracting the things that they want into their daily reality can employ hypnosis. Hypnosis accesses your subconscious mind, the part that acts instinctively and automatically. You can, with the help of hypnosis, align both conscious and subconscious minds and thereby clarify and multiply the energy signals that you are emitting into the atmosphere.
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