If you are the parent of a disobedient, arrogant, or hard to deal with child of any kind, then look no further, you have arrived at the right place! Even if you are simply interested in the best for your child’s welfare, and professional parenting strategies and ideas, this information is for you!
In today's society, especially in developed countries, it seems that many new parents quite simply are ill equipped to properly raise and discipline their children. Of course, any kind and loving parent wants the best for their child in every way, and the fact that you have arrived at this page suggests exactly that.
Now the biggest problem that most parents have with raising their children is that they don't fully understand their psychology, or basically, the way they think, and what goes on in their minds when they receive commands, discipline, etc. Of course, one of the most famous of these is reverse psychology, telling your child one thing whilst wanting them to do another. That may be fine if it works initially, but it not only trains their mind the wrong way, they also adapt and begin to reason, and one thing that is for certain is that the majority of parents underestimate just how clever and even manipulative their child can be. Children as young as 3 and 4 have found to be capable of being manipulative and cunning, without their parents even realizing it!
Communication is another very important factor in your child's mental and emotional development. It is pointless to loose your temper, scream and yell at your child. All this does is make him or her think that this is normal and acceptable behavior. You need to be able to "get inside your child's mind", so to speak, and to do this, the two of you need to be on the same wave length. Find out what they are feeling, and talk to them in a calm, controlled and most importantly, loving way. They will pick up on this, and may be enough to melt the barrier between you. This is far more effective than the punishment / reward system, which only manifests shallow results.
You know the saying "monkey see, monkey do?" A child's mind is like a big sponge. They absorb almost everything including unwanted behavior and antics. And their parents are their biggest example in their early stage of life. If they see you do anything, they will automatically assume it is normal and ok, whether it be expressing kind words to one another, or throwing food at one another at the dinner table. So, if you find yourself yelling impatiently towards them or other family members, guess what they're learning? Same deal with domestic violence, other bad habits, even drug use. The "Do what I say, and not as I do" phrase is obviously a recipe for disaster. And yet so many parents literally do this, often without even thinking.
So if you're trying to "break" a particularly tough child, have tried countless methods to control them but without success, then no parent should be too proud or even ashamed to seek professional advice. Your child deserves the best you can give them, including valuable life training and discipline. So what I would like to share with you now is a cheap, but please note, very effective professionally written guide dedicated to raising your child. It deals with every aspect of behavioral problems, and is packed with advice, tips and strategies. In fact, it is at the moment one of the most popular and best selling child advise guides on the internet. Even if you are right now hesitant to spend a small amount on this amazing eBook, simply by clicking on the link, you can watch a free video presentation dealing with communication.
There is plenty of child raring advise plastered all over the internet, but unfortunately most of it is simply written by your average Joe Blow, just like me, who has only a bit of advice to give but no real solid and "fool proof" information. Remember, you're stuck with them for about two decades, so wouldn't it be nice to spend every moment of that without resentment but instead with happy and quality times.