Can’t find a girlfriend? If you can’t find a girlfriend then fear not cos that is what I’m going to help you out with today! Let’s get something clear though, if you are thinking you can’t find a girlfriend this probably isn’t actually true. Girls are EVERYWHERE. Unless you live in Alaska then what is probably the case is girls are all around you it’s just have been unable to GET them.

So I will take the liberty to rephrase your question to how do I GET girls once I’ve found them? Glad you asked. Well let’s get into it…

If you can’t find a girlfriend you are probably doing many things wrong which cause the girls you do find attractive to be turned off. Perhaps you know some in your social group and they just see you as the harmless, sweet friend- ouch. Or perhaps you go to clubs or other social gatherings and meet them but they are repulsed by you. Well who cares? Whatever the reason may be there are steps you can do to deal with these issues if you are willing to put in the effort. Effort I hear you cry? Yes, effort. If you can’t find a girlfriend and you want to find one then you are going to have to work at it just like any other skill.

So rather than making efforts to find one specific girl and blaming your lack of success on outside forces instead take responsibility as a man and work on getting it fixed so you can get whichever girl you choose. Think of it like being overweight and having to exercise more. Results will come in time. Likewise, you are socially out of shape if girls are not often attracted to you so you must work on getting more socially savvy. Once you get more lean in this area, fear not, the girls will find YOU. This is not some hype talk…you will notice this happen as you get better. I have both lost weight and worked on my skills with women and in bother cases, over time, I noticed the different reactions I would get from people.

In situations where girls may have been repulsed by you gradually you will noticed their hatred subside and give way to neutral or bored behavior. After some more time mild interest and after more time again bonerfied (yea I wrote it) attraction.

There are tons and tons of different things which go into this which I could go into but it would take a whole book to do so but instead why not check out my blog in the resources section.