Do you know that there is something that you are doing (without even being aware) and it’s the reason you haven’t attracted Mr. Right yet? Don’t feel bad. I was doing the same thing until I realized it was hindering me from attracting Mr. Right.

On my journey to attracting Mr. Right, I would go to various places with my girlfriends and I would be surrounded by single men. They would look my way, smile, but none of them would seem to approach me.

After this happened to me more than once, I started to think if something was wrong with me. I started to ask myself all sorts of questions.

"Was I unattractive?"

"Am I wearing the wrong outfit?"

"Did my hair look ok?"

And the truth was that there wasn’t anything wrong with my physical appearance. I looked drop dead gorgeous from head to toe and my outfit complimented my figure.

The mistake that I was making was on a subconscious level. Deep down I really didn’t want to be bothered. I personally felt that these men would walk up to me, ask can they buy me a drink only to find out hours later that I wasn’t interested in them. I didn’t want to waste my time or theirs.

That was a huge aha moment for me. Subconsciously I was saying that I didn’t want to be bothered and my body language represented what I thought.

When men would look my way I would smile but it was a smile that said, "Hi, don’t bother me." I would cross my arms while sitting at the table with my friends. When it was time to hit the dance floor I would dance by myself or sit down at my table.

Personally, if I was a single man I wouldn’t have approached me either.

Through this experience I have learned one important lesson in attracting Mr. Right.

BE APPROACHABLE.

Mr. Right Attraction Assignment

1. Be approachable.

2. Be sure that you want to attract Mr. Right. Firstname, on your journey to attracting Mr. Right make sure that subconsciously you want to be approached by men.

3. At all times be aware of what your body language. Your body language says more than your words. It is the first thing that men notice. If you want men to approach you, make sure that you are conveying the right message