Every one of us must agree that we have all got different work ethics as well as priorities towards our life. What seems to be sentimental for one fellow might sound pretty simple/unimportant for the other. Let us accept one basic fact 'We are not creatures of perfection but creatures of habits". In every relationship which we cling on or hold dearly we feel something special towards the other person while that person would have a seemingly different liking in his/her partner. When such a dear relationship face challenges like while dating a pretty girl from your locality she just breaks up and when you try to mend things up she exposes her disinterest then it is high time the man needs to overcome his anxiety feelings from this relationship break up. It must not be misunderstood that all dating relationships have troubles .There are indeed many people having less or no relationship issues on the surface level but when given a closer look into their relationship status one can find out that on the external out set these people would be the so called "ideal perfect couple", "made for each other" kind but on the inside analysis these people would be facing more problems than many others. It is true that when an illegal affair is being exposed the wife feels bad and she in turn starts to ponder over the reasons that caused this kind of relationship troubles. In most cases the wife starts to ask questions like "How was I such a stupid lady? I wish I had paid extra attention to him and his needs? Did I treat him so bad that he punished me by having this type of affair?"

Let us all admit as ladies and members of the "Swinger sex" we are all susceptible to blaming our own selves in any issues or problems that occurs in the life of our partner. Actually it is the man who should be blamed for such petty acts and affairs .Supposedly a couple married for say 10 years face trials it is wise to work out or solve the issues and then restart the relationship .In case one cannot forgive the other it is wise to also end the relationship for the sake of saving oneself becoming emotional depressed. Take time and think about the positive side of life after breaking up from the betrayal guy. It is true many feelings rise up and the mood swings are pretty bad .It is also good to opt for family counselors who would definitely be the right person to show as wells guide the right way of thinking and acting in such crisis times of life The right thing would be to take control of one’s emotions and act prudent enough because the life of not one but two are at stake in problematic affairs.