Women love being pampered. She especially likes to be touched by the man she loves. Touching is the easiest and simplest way to make a girl feel loved and appreciated. If you want to please a woman, giving her a sensual massage can ease her way into sex.

You can start with a relaxing general massage before shifting the focus to your partner’s sex centers. The idea is to bring your partner to high levels of arousal and keep him or her there for a while. Below are some basics of sensual massage.

(1) Get him/her into a comfortable position and situation

The best place to give a massage is when he/she is lying down on a padded surface. Wherever it is, the place has to be padded with some blankets to protect him/her from unnecessary strains. A massage is best given when he/she is naked. If she does not want to be nude, then a bathing suit or underwear is fine. But a massage will be more sensual and erotic when your skin touches hers.

A romantic mood can be fostered with dim lights and soothing music. Turn off the cell phone to avoid any distraction. Before starting to give him/her a massage, make sure you are relaxed too. If you are tense, your strokes may hurt.

(2) Prepare some lubricants

Make sure you get some massage oil, preferably those scented ones. This will allow your hands to glide smoothly across her skin. If your massage include the female genitals, avoid using oil-based lubricants because they are not so easy to wash away, which can promote bacterial growth resulting in yeast infection. Make sure the water-based lubricant does not contain any Nonoxynol-9 because this can cause irritation. Never apply the oil or lotion directly onto his/her body.

(3) Maintain communication

During both the relaxation and general phases of your erotic massage, it is important for him/her to feel comfortable enough to make any requests and comments. If the one receiving the erotic massage is a man, communication can allow stimulation to be slowed down, changed or stopped before ejaculation becomes inevitable. It is a good idea to look into your partner’s eyes while your hands are on his or her genitals and based on his/her response you can adjust your strokes accordingly.

It is helpful to encourage your partner with hot and dirty talk or sexy compliments. Many sexual difficulties that women experience are due to worries such as her partner is getting tired of pleasuring her or she does not come fast enough, etc. Letting your receiving partner knows you enjoy giving her pleasure can be a powerful aphrodisiac for her.

(4) Watch your body posture and strokes

Keep your hands in contact with your partner, taking your time, being rhythmic yet sensitive and progressing from long gliding strokes to deep ones. When giving a massage be sure to use good body mechanics, use your body weight rather than arm strength for deep strokes and during gliding strokes keep your knees slightly bent.

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