There are so many obstacles that keep us from achieving our goals in our lives these days that it is so easy to just put them all on the back burner. But is this something you really can afford to do?
No you can not give up. Adversity is the optimal condition for anyone to gage their own worth.
What you do after failing for the hundredth time is a test to your courage and perseverance.
I am going to let you in on a few things that I have done to help me conquer those obstacles that are now helping me to achieve my goals.
The first thing that you need to do is to get crystal clear on what it is that you want and where it is that you want to go. You have to ask yourself what is the end result that you are looking to achieve.
Now you are going to focus on these and hold yourself accountable for acquiring what you are after. If your goal is to loose weight, then watch what you eat. If your goal is to become financially free, then find a way to make this happen. Do not let anyone or anything get in your way. (These are the obstacles that will stop you)
You will have to take action and work diligently towards those goals. Get a blueprint in front of you and you will then have a new belief. Do not focus right a way on the outcome, you will want to focus on taking little steps, once you accomplish these little steps you will have a new belief and you will keep at it.
Do not just sit around spinning your wheels because you donít know what steps to take. Reach out and find yourself a mentor. This is going to be someone who can help you find a system for you to follow. They can also keep you accountable to conquer those obstacles to get you step by step closer to your goals.
When you take action you will achieve the outcome you want, but it will only work if you apply what you learn. You need to know the little results that are required to get results you want to achieve.
You have to become responsible for yourself. What I mean by this is you have to take credit when credit is due as well as when you fail. Donít go blaming anyone but yourself for the outcome of your situations. Believe me when you start taking responsibility for your actions, things will start happening for you.
There is one more thing I would like to add here and that is your mindset. What you think about you bring about. So keep a positive attitude. If you start thinking that you are not going to be able to this, turn it around and say yes you can and you will. Get out of your own way and let things happen, learn the steps to take and take consistent action to conquer those obstacles that will take you closer to your goals. Never give up on the end results you want. It's up to you to find the key that unlocks the door to a more fulfilling life.