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Do You Need Approval?
Home Self-Improvement Happiness
By: Ruti Yudovich Email Article
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"No matter who you are or what you did; there will always be somebody who will not approve of you. So donít try to live your life trying to please everybody."

As babies we want to get attention, so we smile or laugh and make others laugh back at us. When they donít give us attention we cry and then for sure we get it.

As we grow older we get a bit more sophisticatedĖĖ if we donít get love, attention, approval or acknowledgement, we break things in the house, or we "accidently" spill milk on the floor, or we forget to take the dog for a walk and voila Ė the stink and the mess on the carpet gets us a LOT of attention.

Then we do things and we want people to agree with usĖĖto tell us it was accepted, beautiful, that it was OK, and that we are wonderful. Thereís nothing wrong with liking to hear compliments or a good word of support. These are all wonderful. But NEEDING praises is a different matter. Looking for approval; needing it to move onÖ Where does it get us? Whose life are we eventually living? Ours or those whose approval we need?

Therefore to live your life, to be who you are and who you want to beĖĖthe only approval you need is from yourself.

Be true to yourself. Donít wait for others to give you the OK to live or how to live.
You are here! You have already gotten a driverís license. Donít wait for others to drive you around; you donít know where theyíll take you and where youíll end up.

You be the driver of your own car. Set goals, set targets, get in your car and drive on.
Go to places you want to see, drive fast or slow; donít stop to ask people whether your driving is acceptable or if your choices are approved. Follow your own heart, follow your passion and those who donít approve will be just another traffic light on your way to your destination.

Remember! The most successful people in the history never asked permission to follow their quest, never listened to those who disagreed with their path. They kept on going, stepping on a few stones here and there but never lost track of their path and destination.

"So donít try to live your life trying to please everybody." (excerpt from I Hate to Say Goodbye.)

Ruti Yudovich recently released her first novel, I Hate to Say Goodbye, based on her early years in Israel. She is also the author of a two-part, self-teaching educational book entitled the joy of Hebrew. ion on her works can be found at and

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