Most women appreciate it when a man approaches with good manners, especially because itís so rare to see.
I canít count how many times Iíve heard from women in my own city complaining that "men donít approach here". Theyíre not complaining frivolously, they want men to say "hi".
One reason being that itís a very assertive thing to do, which is an attractive quality in men. Naysayers either donít understand attraction or theyíre secretly jealous that they canít do it themselves.
Of course, that doesnít mean that just by showing up youíre going to be well received. There are so many variables that we donít have control of when introducing ourselves to women in public.
She may already be taken, be in a bad mood, or just not like you or your approach. You canít please everyone.
If you do it well youíll increase the odds in your favor. Many more women will be receptive and any negative responses will be minimal. "Doing it well" in large part comes down to how youíre feeling inside - basically, your confidence.
If you feel great and thereís a rainbow following you everywhere you go, that good feeling is going to be projected to everyone you meet. The same is true if youíre anxiety ridden and donít feel good.
Confidence is more than just a good feeling though - Itís self proficiency and your belief in yourself to make something work. If youíve done an approach that worked then youíre much more likely to feel confident about doing it again.
If youíve never done it then youíre entering the unknown and that presents uncertainty; a big reason why most guys will never try since results are not guaranteed.
A lot of the confidence behind it can be built by chatting up women on a daily basis. This experience is crucial. A few other things that will build confidence for men also include:
Improv or stand up comedy
You can consider those items like cross training.
It makes sense to build confidence in multiple disciplines which intersect because youíll build yourself as whole man.
How to introduce yourself to a woman in public
Here are the nuts and bolts of introducing yourself.
First, the main things to keep in mind are:
Keep it simple Approach quickly if you see someone you like Be direct
Customize your approach
These rules of thumb will keep you from getting too wrapped up in your own thoughts and keep things Ďnaturalí so you can have an organic experience, as opposed to something scripted.
When you see her do this:
Say "excuse me" then stop walking right away (if she was walking)
Explain why you approached then give her a simple compliment "I thought you look great and wanted to say hi"
Thatís the introduction in a nutshell but you can get detailed steps here.
When done properly, youíll experience a ton of adventures and new relationships which would have never been possible without putting yourself out there.