Statistics show that about 41 percent of all first marriages end in divorce. This is a depressing statistic to say the least… and yet, each year, this number increases ever so slightly.
So, the question now is – Why do marriages and relationships hit the rocks?
After all, both parties loved each other enough to tie the knot. Where did the love go? Why has the passion fizzled out?
The answer is – familiarity. Like the old saying goes, ‘Familiarity breeds contempt.’
The key to keeping the passion and love alive is to prevent familiarity and a lack of admiration for one’s partner from setting in. James Bauer, a relationship expert, wrote a book, "His Secret Obsession" just for women to understand the inner workings of their man’s mind.
It has been an online bestseller for a considerable length of time and resembles the female variant of 'The Game', that was composed by Neil Strauss'.
If you’re starting to pick up signs that your marriage is getting boring and dry, this book has your name written all over it. It will guide you on how to rekindle the passion and love in your marriage. When your husband is obsessed over you, his eyes won’t wonder elsewhere.
There are several tips in the book that are ‘mind games’ but it’s all about understanding human nature. When you understand what your husband needs in a marriage and you give it to him, he will be very committed to you.
With all the raging feminists on the planet today, going out of your way to please your husband is deemed as weakness. Yet, most of these feminists are often single and besides moaning and protesting, they really have nothing else going for them.
The reality of the situation is that a savvy lady knows precisely what to do to keep her better half infatuated with her. It’s not weakness, but brilliance.
Like the actor, Denzel Washington once said, 'A wise woman knows the importance of speaking life into her man. If you love him; believe in him, encourage him and be his peace.'
James Bauer’s book will show you exactly what to do to save your marriage. Let’s look at why it’s so effective.
The Good Points:
1) It gives you a thorough understanding of how men think and why they act the way they do. This inner peek into the male psyche will blow your mind. The truth of the matter is that most women are clueless.
They try to save their marriage and act in a way that they think they’ll positively respond to. Despite all the talk about gender equality, the fact remains that men and women think differently.
His Secret Obsession will give you the facts from a man’s point of view. By doing what James suggests, your husband will be much more responsive rather than put off. His interest in you will increase and he’ll be more committed to you and remember why he married you.
2) Despite the fact that this guide was targeted at married women hoping to save the marriages, it can be very useful to single women too. Ever had an occasion where a man said he’ll call you back after a date… and you never hear from him again, and you don’t know why?
This book will tell you why. You’ll understand if you’re subconsciously giving off signals that repel men. You don’t know what you don’t know. His Secret Obsession will open your eyes.
It doesn’t matter how pretty or talented you are. Without the right social skills and understanding of how men think, your love life is going to be painful and difficult.
3) This is a risk-free purchase. You have 60 days to experiment with the strategies in the guide and check whether they work for you or not. Most of the time, your marriage will get so much better that you’ll forget about the refund policy… but if you’re still not satisfied, you can always get your money back.
4) The writing is on the wall. His Secret Obsession has sold thousands of copies and has a long list of happy customers. It has been one of the top selling relationship guides online for a couple of years. If that’s not proof that this product works, nothing is.
5) The secret methods such as the ‘The X-ray Question’ and the ‘Glimpse Phrase’ are exceptionally brilliant. They’ll help you to put the spark back into your marriage and fan the glowing embers till they’re roaring flames. James’ methods work. Period.
We live in times where affairs and infidelity are very common. The ‘Silent Action’ technique in this book will keep your husband loyal to you and he’ll not be tempted to cheat. It may seem too good to be true… and yet it works. You just need to know what to do.
6) This book is cheap and will help any lady to rescue her marriage. Regardless of whether you have a solid marriage, the techniques in His Secret Obsession will help to flavor your marriage like a fine wine.
The Bad Points:
1) Consistency matters. You need to apply every tip you’re taught. You can’t do it half-heartedly. Some women may feel shy or intimidated to carry out certain actions. But they’ll need to go ahead and give the techniques a try.
Getting out of your comfort zone may be necessary, but the fact of the matter is that your life will change if you change. Follow James’ advice to the letter and keep at it. You must be consistent and follow the instructions in this guide.
2) This is an online download. You’ll need a computer and an internet connection to access it. You can always print out the guide after downloading it though.
Should You Get It?
A more pertinent question you should be asking is "How important is my marriage to me?"
If you’ve tried everything and nothing seems to work, His Secret Obsession just might help you. Let’s not forget, your husband did marry you. His feelings may be buried, but they’re still there.
James’ guide will give you the skills you need to bring the marriage back to life. It’s much easier when you know what you’re doing. What you need is knowledge and method – instead of blindly following your emotions.
This book will give you all the skills and techniques you require. So, use James’ techniques and save your marriage today.