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Give The Gift Of Understanding And Compassion...
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By: Emma Viglucci Email Article
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In this day and age, especially in this culture, where success and happiness tend to be measured in terms of material accumulation, it makes sense that gifting follows the same pattern.

The holidays have become so commercialized that their true meaning is completely lost on most. Children are waiting for the toys and might not even know what the holidays are aboutÖ People are stressed over who to spend the holidays with, what to buy for loved ones, and managing all the added work that comes with all the merry-making.

But, are people celebrating the true meaning? Are people enjoying the Season? Are people more spiritually grounded, enjoying peace and love? Iím sure the answer is NO for mostÖ

Take a moment to ponder how you celebrate the meaning of your Holidays? What does your Season look like? How do you bring the message of the Season into your merriment and gift giving? How do you share this with your Partner?

Iím not going to go as far as to suggest you donít buy each other a giftÖ That would just be outrageous! (sarcasm). Iím going to suggest though, that you think about how to bring the meaning of the Season into your relating through the rest of the year, and into the New Year.

I celebrate Christmas. To me the message is that of extending forgiveness, acceptance, understanding and compassion. Love. So the Holidays are about giving from the heart to meet anotherís need, and giving to the less fortunate. Itís not about accumulating material stuff, or out doing the Joneses. Itís about giving the Gift of Our Self, our presence, and of being in communion and connected.

Make the rest of this Holiday Season meaningful in your Relationship(s):

1) Have realistic expectations Ė some people have a lesser capacity for "Giving."

2) Donít worry about what you are getting, focus on what you are "Giving."

3) Share with your Partner what you love about them, what you appreciate they do, what you understand they struggle with or donít like.

4) Get your Partnerís world and accept it. You donít have to like it, but itís not your job to change it. Have compassion for their perspective and experience. Be their shoulder to lean on.

5) Show up to your interactions. Be with your Partner. Let your Authentic Self create a positive ritual that promotes intimacy and connection.

Let the true Spirit of the Holidays be present in your Relationship. Allow Joy, Peace, Harmony and Abundance to permeate your Season and the New Year together. Rejoice!

Emma K. Viglucci, LMFT has been in the mental health field in varying capacities for the past 20+ years. She is the Founder and Director of a psychotherapy and coaching practice specializing in working with busy professional and entrepreneurial couples who are struggling getting on the same page and feeling connected.

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