Ok, so here's your assignment.
Sit down, spend some time and think of ALL the things that fall into the category of "anything that you can do or say ... that shows your woman that you're thinking about her, and that you care."
Use your imagination, rack your brains here. No imagination? Ask friends who're women, do some research online ... MAKE AN EFFORT ... then make a list!
Yup, you heard me. A list. Romance doesn't come naturally to you, remember? So write it all down! The bigger the list, the better. Got it? Now here's the kicker. Make a schedule. Make a schedule as to when you'll be doing this stuff!
Radical, huh? How unromantic, right? Ah, but you're a guy ... you appreciate routine, you appreciate practicality, you appreciate a good "plan". So trust me, and make a schedule.
Now that you have your schedule, set up a reminder system! Holleeee ... this is just getting worse, isn't it? Just do it. Set it up on your Blackberry, set it up in your organizer, set it up in your phone, heck, even have your secretary or assistant set it up.
However, here's the key. NEVER, EVER, EVER ... let you spouse/partner know about it.
There nothing so UN-romantic to the recipient of this "romance" than to learn that it's not spontaneous! That's why a good method may be to set up an email reminder system like the ones the greeting card sites have.
Ok, so now you've got your list ... you've got your schedule. What now? Do it, alright? JUST DO IT!
Ok, that's all for now, I just got an email telling me that's it time to go buy some flowers for her ... "just because"! Gotta run!
Good luck!
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