When it comes to making love, women are generally more into the fantasy aspect surrounding the erotic experience than they are the simple thrill of getting undressed with someone they know and love (or maybe even don't!). Enticing a woman to yield to your deepest, most secret desires requires that you gradually draw her into your world by making yourself into a unique high value lover, and then doing so on a consistent basis until you secure her complete enchantment (and submission). You do this by customizing each and every experience in bed for her based on some careful investigation on your part. Great sex for most women can be defined as erotic in a way that she doesn't consider inappropriately perverted with a man who has learned to deliver the goods in a way that she likes, time after time. Imposing task? Not necessarily. Here's a three step plan to help you navigate this special road into the erotic heart of any woman...

1) Search For Her Erotic Weaknesses

The first step is to figure out what sort of cheap tricks in your bag will send a particular chick into orbit. How?... Experiment! Maybe she likes to be dirty-talked or verbally coaxed along? Maybe she would like you to dominate her? Or maybe she wants to control YOU? Try all sorts of things with her... spanking, tickling, toys, take some nasty pictures, do it out in the bushes, try some stuff in the shower, swap positions, etc. Use your porno powers here that you've spent years (probably all by yourself) "cultivating". Some of this mayhem may turn her off, but there's usually SOMETHING that will get a woman red-lining off the meter -- and it's your job to discover what that is and then learn how to play it like a fiddle!

If she refuses to go very much beyond plain vanilla missionary-style, then you may have run across a chick with low sex drive or other pressing issues on her mind that she feels must be more important. Rather than be angry about it, count your blessings. It's liberating to uncover such crucial knowledge of incompatibility about a partner as soon as possible because it can head off a ton of future misery. Turning someone this far gone towards your more open-minded, erotically-experimental direction can be an impossible chore. I've always felt that the best sex occurs between two child-like adults. By that I mean people who don't take themselves too seriously -- at least not to the point where they feel sex has become "kid stuff" and somehow beneath their dignity. People who've taken on too much responsibility in life are likely to end up this way by middle-age. Just a warning.

Anyway, regular work between the sheets will eventually uncover where all her high water marks are located, and her limits as well. Keep notes on what you're doing and of her reactions to your experimental prodding -- silly as this may sound. Once you get a page or two of notes, go back and look for clues. Look for those things that she seems to enjoy the most and figure out a few clever ways to focus in on them.

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