Now you're ready to lock her heart up tight, and lock yourself into the drivers' seat.

2) Become Her "Drug" Based on that Weakness

Once you think you have some idea of what her sexual weaknesses could be (in the sense that she has a "weakness" or intense desire for these acts, fantasies, etc.) you're ready to zoom in on them, expand upon them, make them more elaborate -- until you become really good at delivering the best sexual experience that she's ever had... time after time. If she wonders what the deal is with your sudden amorous enthusiasm, try crossing her up a little by telling her that she makes you feel uninhibited like no one else ever has. This freaks them out because most women think that all guys are natural sex-fiends to some degree and don't realize that it often takes someone special to actually bring this quality out. For you, this person is her! Such an attempt to reach out and connect your soul with hers through raw physical pleasure makes a powerful impression that cannot be easily dismissed or forgotten. The rush of adrenaline that accompanies such feelings will serve to weld these unique moments deep into her unconscious mind. And they will all be connected to YOU... you will always be "that guy" who did "that thing" the night you were both together at "that place".

Now her romantic enchantment should begin to really flourish!

3) Get Her Addicted to You

Look, most people pretty much wing it when it comes to sex - they know a few basic moves and make the rest up as they go along. The fact that you have 1) studied your "prey" and determined what really turns her on, and 2) are making an effort to satisfy her in specific ways that tie into these revelations, will surely paint you as a totally different breed of cat. And that's good! That's male mystery in action. Before long you'll be seen as a champion among all the men she's known, and really, you'll hardly have done anything all that stupendous. You'll just be doing things with a little more purpose, direction and creativity than the usual average Joe.

While the task of enchanting a woman is mainly one of carefully feeding her thrills and absorbing her fears based on what you've learned from your study of her sexual proclivities, one warning however... never bust this illusion by announcing what you're up to. Don't say, "I'm going to make you addicted to me!..." For that matter, NEVER reveal that you're actually seducing a woman either. If people begin to get the idea that they're being manipulated they will create tons of resistance. Like a stage magician, a trick is only cool as long as you never reveal how it works. If you show the audience how the string runs up your sleeve they'll think 'oh, that trick was easy', and then suddenly the whole thing sucks.

As for technique, simple... women just LOVE men who talk it up in bed! What to say? Try stating the not-so-obvious... tell her all the enticing stuff she longs to hear, but never expects to. Tell an older woman that she's tight like a young chick... Rave about a thick girl's voluptuous body... Tell a skinny girl her long arms make her look like a statue in an art museum. Arms? How often do someone's arms get complimented on? Or maybe that you absolutely love the way her shoulder blades look like little angel wings. Thin girls think they're not very sexy because they don't have enough curves. Not to you though... you're enthralled by it! Tell a 25 year old she has a sultriness that belies her real age -- making her seem more like an experienced middle-aged seductress...

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