So what can you expect to find when you first go to a Swinger Sex Club? It is going to depend on how open you are, pun intended. A lot of cities have clubs that are designed to attract the swinger's fantasies. Most swinger clubs operate with a theme or other activities to inspire sexy players to sex play.

At a Private Swinger Club you should expect the music to be cranked up, everyone drinking, and to see a lot of naughty, sexy dancing, French kissing, etc. Your eyes will not see any totally x rated erotic and sex moves on the dance floor because it is illegal to allow sexual relations at an Only Swinger Club or drinking area. What you will see is likely a bunch of swingers having a great time, seducing others, and getting really excited. The aura will feel very sexually charged.

If you are seeking something a little more kicked back without the cranked up party sounds, the swinger club scene, and all that, you could want to try a house party like a Jacuzzi party or hotel dinner/get together instead. At a Jacuzzi party or dinner it is a lot more laid back with a lot fewer participants. Swinger events like this often allows for more closer interaction and relationship growth. You will have the chance to get to know other people better via chatting before going into a more sexual mode.

Always remember that you don't have to play or have sex to go to a swinger's club or get together. Swinging is all about doing what makes you feel good, and that requires mutual consent. You can go slowly, or choose to just check it out first. Planning on having a sexual encounter or not is up to you. Once you meet another person/couple that you are interested in getting to know them and build a friendship then if you want to start plans for getting together to have swinging sex you can.

There is no right or wrong swinging sex activity. If it feels great and is safe, then it is okay. Swingers have freed themselves from society's strongest taboos, swinging sex, they are feel to free themselves from sexual taboos, such as anal sex, fetishism, and/or bisexuality. The only rule is to do that which you are happy doing. If you are not happy with a sexual activity, just say so and don't feel embarrassed. You set your own limits.

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