Getting to a point of no return or so called divorce is painful emotional experience especially for those who are not initiating this event. At this time nothing else matters except the hope that it can be avoided and you can find a way to get ex wife back.

When a relationship comes to an end in most cases it means that at some point each of you went different pathways and as time went by difference between you both was increasing even if all seemed to be just fine from your point of view. It doesn't even matter what caused actual divorce because reasons why your wife actually left you can be found earlier in your relationship and to get ex wife back you need to understand what were those reasons.

One of main reasons usually is loosing respect for loved one and depending on emotional background it affects your marriage more or less in separating you from each other. Since you are the one who was dumped it means your wife lost respect for you possibly on several occasions which built up over time and ended with where you are now. Usually women loose respect of their men when they don't act as stronger party in relationship unless that's what they are looking for in a men.

Basically if men don't have backbone and can't stand up for their self then majority of ladies won't have any respect for such men. If this is the case then your mission to get ex wife back is almost impossible and only way to achieve it would be analyzing what behaviour exactly made you in her eyes less respectful and working to improve on these characteristics which not many can manage.

Next possible reason could be that either you or your wife wasn't satisfied with lack of passion and intimacy in your relationship which could bring either of you to seeking some adventures outside and if other party finds out about this then it's usually sure end for any relationship. Possible solution for this would be remembering what brought you together in the first place and trying that out to bring back positive memories but some improvisation is required as well.

Possible reasons may vary for each individual case but with some expert involvement exact problem can be identified and solved so you can have another chance with your wife. One of easiest ways to get such help is reading a book by an expert in relationships who explains in detail how to identify your problem and possible solutions for it. I have read numerous books on this topic and best book in my opinion is "Win Back Love" which I recommend as a must read if you are even considering getting another chance or just simply want to find out where you made a mistake that ruined marriage.