You know what I'm talking about. You know a few people who almost always seem on top of the world. Financial pros who make a lot of money, for example.
Producers who produce big money with lots of free time.
When you see how they seem to make money in many different ways that you don't, you say to yourself, "Well, you know how the world works. Money goes to money. The ones who don't need it are the ones who get it."
You know people who have great relationships with their family, business associates, neighbors, friends, and so on.
You may look at them and see them being the center of attention, always being asked for advice. You see and hear about them laughing and joking with important people you feel you'll never get close with.
People who look good. Who are in shape. Who weigh the right amount, and look annoyingly great in clothes you wouldn't dream of wearing. (Or if you do, don't look the same on them.)
People who always get the most desired members of the opposite sex. People who excel at golf or skiing or investing, or whatever.
So what's the deal? Why do these people seem to get so much success in so many areas of life? What lucky lightening bolts have flashed down on them to make them get so much more out of life?
If you feel like you aren't in these life situations enough (or at all) what do you think the problem is?
Why do some people get to squeeze so much juice out of the fruit of life? Why do some people live a life that you can only imagine in your dreams?
Well, I can tell you that there is a very specific and simple reason why they get what you wish you could get. There is an easy answer to this seemingly complicated question!
People Who Get What They Want Have No Problem Seeing Themselves As, People Who Get What They Want!
See, the people you may look at with some measure of envy or longing, are no different than you... with one exception.
One big exception. They put their pants on one leg at a time. They get frustrated and aggravated. They get in fights with their spouses or kids. They yell at cars that cut them off in traffic. They watch sports and have weaknesses for sweets or pizzas.
They spend too much money on things they don't need and run up debts. They get scared when they find something on their body that doesn't belong there. They laugh at "Married With Children" reruns.
They're just like me...and just like you.
But, there is one HUGE difference between them and others who don't get what they want out of life. The mega-successful producers have no problem seeing themselves in situations that they really want to end up in!
They have no problem seeing themselves making $100,000 a year, or $100,000 a quarter...or even $100,000 a month! Think about this for a second. Do you REALLY think you could make $100,000 a month?
What about $100,000 a week? Can you REALLY see yourself taking weekly paychecks out of your practice for $100,000 each? Do you TRULY believe it's possible for you to make that kind of money? If you pay lip service to this idea, and say, "Yeah, sure. I could make that kind of money. I'd love to do it." ...then you have almost ZERO chance of ever doing it! Why?
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