Forgiving your lover and the person they cheated with is the next step in saving your relationship. This does not mean that you should forget what happened.

While you shouldn't bring it up all the time, it's important to remember what occurred (which is generally not too difficult).

How can you forgive your lover's other partner? First of all, you need to recognize that the person is not perfect.

They have flaws, both in their personality and in their body. Your partner likely chose this person for reasons other than looks or compatibility—such as luck and circumstance, or being at the "right place at the right time."

How can you forgive your lover? Try seeing things from their point of view, realizing that not everyone is perfect, and knowing that some people make mistakes, including your lover.

The question then becomes whether or not you should forgive your lover. If your beloved is trying to make amends, and if they are truly sorry for what they did, your relationship still has a chance to mend and heal.

If they explain what occurred and are willing to pour out their heart to you, things can get better. With a little time, and a lot of understanding, a relationship can survive a cheating lover.

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