Finding our soul mate is one of the most fundamental needs of a human being. We all need water, food, clothing and shelter. And we all need true love.

Our current world is increasingly isolating. Fewer and fewer of us know our neighbors. More and more of us work behind computer screens - and even play behind them.

How do we find love?

The more we become, as individuals, increasingly interested in 'things holistic', the less likely we are to meet significant friends and our soul mate through traditional avenues such as bars, sporting events and loud, noisy socials.

So how do we find love?

If we're lucky, our perfect match is a good friend of someone we already know. And that someone we already know is keenly attuned to their intuition, such that they perceive a natural connection between us and their good friend. And they take action on their intuitive sense - and set up a meeting between us. And we both trust ourselves and have courage - and we agree to meet.

How often does this happen in our current society? So many of us have - just like concrete over grass - paved over our intuition and our sensitivity to our subtle energy 'signals'. We live in a 'gross energy' world, relying on things that have already happened to be our 'truth'.

So how do we find love?

We bite into the new ways of this world. We allow someone who has dedicated themselves to linking us with other mature, sensitive, 'green singles' - people who are interested in the values and ideals that we hold dear.

Dating Online - Wow How Times Have Changed!

Online dating sprung into being in the late 1990's. With the advent of the worldwide web and its brilliance in enabling us to connect with like-minded souls around the entire globe, it was an obvious tool - ripe and ready for use in finding love.

Web dating allows incredible privacy - superb for people who are typically shy when it comes to finding love. Without disclosing anything about yourself that you choose to reveal only once you've gotten to know someone sufficiently well for your liking, you are completely in charge of the pace by which you meet singles. You can share things that are special and private to you through communicating on the site in ways that may not come up in face-to-face conversations. Or you can slow things down to your very own pace, taking time as you send winks, smiles and brief emails to your prospective partner via the site's instant messaging, chat rooms and forums.

It's all up to you. You choose. You're in charge.

What a relief!

You can even explore a more empowered sense of yourself through choosing a User Name other than your first name - the one given to you at birth. If you've felt yourself glowing like sunshine, you can call yourself 'Sunshine'. If you love hiking in forests, you can call yourself 'Forest Hiker'. If you're a vegan interested in astrology, you can call yourself 'Vegan Astrologer'. It's all up to you. You decide how you want to present yourself to the world - and to your prospective new friends and perfect match. You can share things that are dear to your heart through communication on the site in ways that may not come up in face-to-face conversations. You can go as deep as you like in your presentation of yourself - or skim the surface for awhile.

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