Long time ago, meeting a woman in a bar used to work well for me but not any more. Most women are not responding well to these scenarios any more. Women feel that a man is not able to make a viable decision when under the influence of alcohol. It also has a negative effect of portraying a man as a drunk. Many people argue that it may not be the perfect set up for meeting a woman for the first time. It is the high time that, like me you moved out of the bar and sought fun in your hobbies. You will definitely find that meeting a woman while you are enjoying the activities that you love doing is very fulfilling. Maybe you love football? Go to a football event with your girl. Do you love cappuccino? pick up the days newspaper and rush straight to your favorite coffee house. And last but not least, if you love cycling pick up your racing bike and ride downhill. This is a great way to meet that special girl pushing her bike uphill. If you approach this kind of girl, chances of responding positively are high since both of you have something in common. Women always respond better in these kind of fun activities.

Once you meet this woman in one of these places, it would be imperative for you not to stare at her if you find her attractive. Do not ogle at her breasts in a sexual manner. It is natural to stare, but only a little while. It would be right to discretely look at her and appreciate her beauty. I appreciate beauty myself. One of the most welcomed natural reaction after meeting a woman is to glance at her for a second or two, then look away. There are several other ways of making a girl catch your eye though. Do not get going too fast. If you realize you are moving too fast, just slow it down a bit. If she smiles, just go a head and say a simple hello. Start by introducing your name then ask her name. Do not talk too long on one subject matter or you will bore her. Change the topic every so often and you will be guaranteed success. This is definitely more effective than when you stare at her.

Once you win her confidence this way, it would be imperative to respect and honor her feelings. If you only want a one night stand with her, please let her know that before hand or you will hurt her feelings once she realizes this. She might never forgive you for not telling her the reason for your interest for her. If you are an respectful man you would call the attention of your first date by using her real name and most important, you would use her first name as it were. This is really seductive and impressive by all standards on meeting a woman for the first time. The woman will have a good first impression about you and she will always remember that you do not have patience with flirting.