You want to call it quits and you hate him or her so much it makes you want puke every time you think about him. Time is the best healer to such emotional wounds. It is regrettable to bad mouth you ex-lover. Reserve your insults and control yourself for a better time to talk about the bone of contention. Most people bad mouth their ex-lovers and at one time they find themselves wanting to go back to them. It won't be easy to win back your ex girlfriend or boyfriend if you threw all sought of insults towards their way. Words have a way of hurting a relationship so much. They might forgive you but it might be beyond their power to forget. Words once uttered cannot be taken back. Do not bad mouth your ex-lover lest your current lover disappoints you. You will have a fall back if your departure was cultured.

Do not bad mouth your ex-lover since he is not your foe. If anything your ex-lover should be your friend. This is a person who knows a lot about you and can pick a problem even before you see it. Lovers are sensitive and they might ought to keep mum in fear of being misinterpreted. Once the title changes to that one of a friend, she/he will be in a position to correct you and make you a better person. May be he used to treat you so well like a woman but he did not tell you your demands were so high. If he told you then, you would throw uncontrollable tantrums he would regret. Ex-lovers are the best friends since one is not answerable to one another. If he lets you know your demands are unrealistic, you might just lower them and better your present relationship.

The love you once felt for your ex-lover should not be zeroed down by words. May be you were not meant for each other. If you accept the reality you will be happy they crossed your path. That is life. Do not announce to the whole world how poor he/she is in bed. Others will even claim how they taught their ex-lovers almost everything. It is okay. You should make him/her happy that you played a big role in their life. If you bad mouth your ex-lover, you might kill his/her self esteem to un repairable levels. Do not expose him too much since it might come back to you. What goes wrong comes round. It is no wonder that you might come back to him after lacking what you were looking for when you left. People will bad mouth you this time round.

Human beings are emotional beings. At one time they get carried away by passion and anger can send you to bad mouth your ex-lover. May be you did not want to go down that route but you did it unconsciously. Take a bold step and apologize to your ex-lover. Show some actions that imply that you are remorseful but be careful not to be misinterpreted. Let your ex-lover remember you for everything good.