The internet is full of great women, but there are some you simply must avoid.
First, you have... The Needy-They need everything!
They need...a shoulder to cry on...a better job...a family that understands...more money ...less work...cheaper rent...children that are better behaved. Please avoid these women online. There’s nothing else you can do for them!
Then you have...The Terminally Depressed...they never have anything to smile about...it seems like they are always just one step from suicide! You try to point all of the "good" things out to them, and they have a negative "counter response". You must avoid these women...if not they will make You depressed. "Congratulations! I heard you got a raise!" They will respond..."Thanks, but I heard there’s going to be a lay-off within a couple of months. I have no idea what I’m going to do!" (It’s not even her division or department!)
Next, is...The High Maintenance (wanna be) Diva...by the second email, she drops the hint that she is looking for a man that can "afford" her. She will make remarks like..."love? I can learn to love someone if the money is right!" That is a huge red flag!
Very early into the online "relationship", she wants to talk by phone. She wants you to hear how "sexy" her voice is.
Within the first couple of phone calls, she will blatantly ask for money to get her hair and nails done. If you hesitate, she will still correspond with you. Hoping within time, she will be able to get money out of you. If you immediately, without any hesitation tell her No, nine times out of ten you will never hear from her again. That is a blind-as-a-bat-red flag!
When getting involved with online dating, keep your guard up, and your eyes open. You will soon spot the women you need to avoid.
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