We have learned over the years...especially over the single years, how to catch his attention offline. Now are we up for a new challenge? Can we capture his attention either online or off?

I think "capture" is a much stronger word than "catch". When I think of the word "capture" I think of a "force of nature" to gain control of...to engulf...to imprison...you get my point?

We don’t just want to simply "catch" his attention...we want to "imprison" and gain control of his attention! So where do we start...what do we need to do to capture his attention online and offline?

We have to have our "face" or our online profile so fine tuned that he is drawn to it like a magnet. We can’t capture his attention unless we are able to "draw" him to us.

Once he is drawn to us, our photo should be mesmerizing. We don’t need the type of beauty that stops traffic! We just need to make the absolute most of the beauty we have. Nothing more...nothing less.

Next, after seeing the photo he now wants to know more about us. Our profile should be interesting, compelling, amusing, entertaining, and thought provoking. In order to capture his attention we must give him something to think about. Once he closes our page...a little part of us should still be with him. That will compel him to send us an email wanting to know more about us...wanting a bigger piece of who and what we are.

So to sum it up simply, we must make the most of who and what we are. Then we must be skilled at knowing how to express who we are inside and out. It has nothing to do with natural or unnatural beauty. It goes much deeper than that ladies...