Getting over him was tough. But thanks to your friends and to your newfound hobbies and distractions, you did get over your boyfriend, or rather ex-boyfriend. But then, for some reasons, you keep seeing him in unexpected places, your friends tell you they saw him here and there. And then you start thinking about him. You thought that probably, he wants you back but you are not sure. You’ve been hurt before and you definitely do not want to get hurt again. Does he want you back? How would you know?

It is quite easy to know if your ex-boyfriend wants you back. There are four signs that he wants you back. Take notice of these signs and then when he gets back into view, you’ll know he’s for real and he wants you back in his life.

1. He calls you and sends you text messages very often.

Calling and sending text messages is one way your ex is trying to tell you that he still thinks about you. There is no other reason why he is calling you or sending those messages except that he has not yet gotten over you. Even if some of the messages seem to be nonsensical like the weather, how his day has been or the movie he knew you’d like, the point is that he simply wants to let you know that he still thinks about you.

2. He seems uncomfortable and awkward when talking with you.

He may be harboring some feelings for you at this stage. He may be displaying some uneasiness when talking with you or refuses to look you in the eye. These are sure signs that he still has deep love for you and that he is unable to let go.

3. He has not started dating yet.

Perhaps it has been 6 months or one year since you broke up and he has not yet to find a new girl. This is also the case with you. The problem is, he has trouble getting into a new relationship and your friends keep telling you that he woos and pursues girl who are similar to you in characteristics and traits. In this case, he still wishes to get back with you.

4. He frequently visits your old romantic spots. You may have avoided the places you used to go as lovers because it reminds you of good old memories. Yet, if you pass by some of your old hangout places and you find him there by himself then he is simply reminiscing about you.

When you see these four signs that he wants you back, ask yourself if you still have feelings for him? And if you do, why don’t you get back together again? You both be happier if you do!