Portray and show disinterest when you are together by adopting an attitude of indifference. Send out those powerful signals that show you would better be doing something else or it would be better if you were somewhere else instead of with your partner. Go ahead and show disdain in whatever your partner is talking about however interesting or constructive it may be. This plot kills conversation and you are left with nothing to do except to stare at the roof or gaze at the activities happening around you. Pretend how you are bored to death especially when you are together. Creating such a situation helps your partner to take the cue from there. To realize how incompatible you are. Siting together with nothing to talk about is a sure way to kill your relationship.

Go all the way and start failing to honor dates and important anniversaries. Assume the birthday of your partner and then feign one excuse or another. This will drive someone crazy. How dare you forget the birth day of all things. It will bring division, vendetta, arguments and attract good quarrels. These are some of the ingredients that you really need to kill your relationship. Be on the war path with your partner by failing to show up at dates. Ignore the coffee date your partner had invited you. Do not even be tempted with cinema tickets. Pretend you were or actually are very busy with a commitment somewhere else. If your partner is an intelligent person he or she will notice this tell tale signs and realize its time to move on.

If the relationship had progressed to sexual encounters, put a stop to it. Switch off sex. Impose sex sanctions on your partner and resist any temptations of jumping into bed again. Avoid his room or her room. Remain scarce and unavailable for sex or anything else for that matter. This might serve to drive your partner to solicit sexual needs from outside the relationship. This will be the better for you. It will add you more ammo to kill your relationship. It gives you a reason to pack and go. Sex is such a great issue that is bound to raise controversy with your partner. The bedroom has been a grave yard for many relationships. Kill your relationship by taking it to this renowned slaughter house.

Do something outrageous like dating your partner's best friend. It will be the height of betrayal but you don't give a damn. The goal is to kill your relationship. your partner will feel undermined, hurt, betrayed, used and any of all those adjectives that come in that line. The sure way to kill your relationship. There will be no reason for staying any longer in this relationship. Be bold and face your partner. State it clearly and verbally for that matter to the effect that how you used to feel has now changed. It is hurting but tell your partner the love you once had is no more. Cut all forms of communication after that.