When it comes to the matters of the heart especially where love and affection is concerned, you will never face a dilemma. You can deceive yourself but you will never deceive your heart. Feelings emanate from deep down the heart are reflex actions that a person has no control to. If you are in love with a person, hormonal discharge from the body increase. The heart goes after what it has desired and you are not in a capacity to stop it. But there comes a situation when you stick around with a person for a certain duration of time and you really feel close to him or her. But do you really love him or her? If it puts you in a dilemma, then what you are feeling is close to sibling love or agape love.

Do you really love him or her? You can hardly get the person out of your mind. You dream about her or him the whole night and you day dream about her or him all day long. When you are dogged by such feelings, ask no more questions. The love bug has struck on you. Do not start wondering what happened to your tough exterior personality. It is not your advancing in age that is making you soft either. The bottom line is that you love that person. In such a situation you have no choice. Your heart has passed a verdict. Follow your heart. Unless you want to start suffering silently by not expressing what is in your heart. Your equerries and futile questions ought to answer themselves at this juncture. You have a strong spot for him or her and you find yourself dying with anticipation, apprehension and anxiety. You are so restless someone near you might think you have ants inside your pants. The way you wring your fingers and hands is unmistakable. You are now glancing at your watch for the umpteenth time. You can hardly move your eyes from the entrance. Your labored breath gives you away. To speak the truth, the effect or impact that person has over you is immense. Do you really love him or her? That would be a stupid question to ask because the writing is already on the wall. You are in love! Do not live in self denial. Be realistic and stop being a dump ass. You only have two alternatives, you either approach the point of your affection or run to the nearest hills.

It is evident that this person means the world to you. You see everything through him or her. Your mind and soul is troubled when this person is far away from you. You groom yourself with so much dedication with a sole intention of creating an impression on him or her. The look in your eyes when this person is around leaves a lot to be desired. You are in your comfort zone when in the company of this person. You want to be always near him or her, you can hardly let this person out of sight. She or he has become the apple of your eye. Do you really love him or her? If you are still fidgeting about this question then i will answer on your behalf. You are neck deep in love.