Shortly after that epiphany, I left. And soon after leaving him, I discovered the Law of Attraction and I never looked back!

Yes, people told me, 'You are sinning against God.' The real sin was tolerating another person's disdain and discounting of how wonderful and valuable a person I was! By agreeing with my husband, I made God into a pretty sorry Creator. So I let the religious community judge me as sinful and him as a saint.

Yes, people told me, 'You will endure financial hardship if you divorce him'. They had no idea and could not wrap their minds around the truth: that I was used to living on very little money.

Yes, I had been out of the workforce for 30 years and no longer had my RN license. No, I did not know how I would survive.

This I knew to be true: If I will pay attention to what feels good and right to me, I will be fine and so will my children.

It was hard work changing my mind-set from negative whining, bitter complaining and being the victim to always looking for and finding something good to say about everything!

It took WAY more patience than I had developed to wade through 4 1/2 years of legal mumbo-jumbo and go through a trial! Raising severely physically and mentally challenged children was a cake-walk compared to the patience and fortitude it took to stand my ground and believe that I am worth more than you are offering.

What this long-drawn out procedure did FOR me was help me develop strength, discover MORE natural gifts (I'm a total geek with the Internet), become authentic and blossom into the wonderful, caring, loving person I had hidden from.

Today, I totally GET IT! The Law of Attraction is bringing to each one of us the precise set of circumstances necessary to bring us back to LIFE! If you find yourself in the midst of divorce, wondering if there is a way to turn this into something good--then YES, YES, YES!"

Copyright (c) 2008 Rebecca Hanson

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