If you are a guy and you recently went through a breakup, take heart, there are ways to determine if she still loves you and wants you back in her life. If you have been together for several years now, you should know that women do not always mean what they say and that they have a knack for making you use your intuition the way they do. Look at the three signs that your ex-girlfriend wants you back and capitalize on that in pursuing her again.

It is not very difficult really to get in touch with your ex-girlfriend. She may have been hurt when both of you broke up but you were too. It would be a matter of sorting through the issues that caused the rift between the two of you. Apologize and talk to her on how you can improve. If she decides to go for the breakup, let her go for now.

The first sign that she wants you back is the way in which she could not help but reply to your calls or to your text messages. Your conversations may be brief and simple but it is the connection that counts. When you try to reconnect with her, and she does not repulse you or send you away then you have a fairly good chance of reuniting with her.

Secondly, she agrees to meet up with you occasionally. It might have been occasional at first but she does not object to going out even if you both have officially broken up. This means that she still finds your company comfortable and pleasant. If she does not, then she wouldn’t even think of being with you even for a few moments.

She may have decided to go out on dates but if she still sees you even if she starts dating someone else, it means she is giving you a fair chance to prove yourself. Do not waste this chance and make the best out of it. You only have this second chance to prove that you still love her so do your best. Don’t overdo it though and never be too confident, otherwise, she will see through that and you may be left where you were.

The last sign you should look for is the way she looks at you when you are together. If you catch her looking at you with longing and love in her eyes, it certainly means that she still has the feelings and she is waiting for you to make a move to win back her back. She may not say yes right away, but if you see all three signs that your ex-girlfriend wants you back, pursue her showing your love at this point is a sure way to getting her back again.