If you mastered the art of touch, you would be able to comfortably and confidently lead a girl from the first date, to hand holding, to kissing, and to the bedroom with the finesse that she will adore you for.

When you are touching a girl in a way that she really enjoys, she will be showing you by the way she looks at you, by the way she smiles, and by the way she opens up. You can then lead her further to her sensual opening.

If she is tensing up, crossing her arms, or moving away, then you know that she is not yet ready for that level of touch intimacy.

If you are not with a girl right now, get a piece of fabric and practice touching it in the ways that I will go over.

If you are dating or in a relationship, put these distinctions into practice this week!

Think of it as practicing your kicks in martial arts, foul shots in basketball, serves in tennis, and driving in golf. In beginning to learn how to touch a girl, you will have to dedicate yourself to the art of touch.

If you are uncomfortable with touch in general, start to get comfortable and touch everyone and everything around you.

When I say touch, I don't mean grope, I don't mean just walking up and directly and grabbing someone.

While learning how to touch a woman, everything needs to be smooth and progressive rather than rough and abrupt. This means your initial touch might be a light brush that lasts half a second.

The art of touch is vast, so I won't time to get into some finer step-by-step guidance of exactly how to go from the first date to holding a girls hand, to kissing her, to first contacting her breasts, and so on which I cover in several chapters in my book.

I will start you off with some mindsets you need to have as you begin to get comfortable with touching girls.

How to touch a girl tip #1: Stroke her as you would a cat

When you touch or stroke your woman, approach slowly, gently, softly, and with no sudden movements. Be present and gentle as you touch a girl. Feel into what parts of her is relaxing into you and whether to use broad or short strokes.

Notice the speed of your touch, the rhythm of your touch, and how to use your body as part of the touch. If you are not sensitive in your touch, a cat will run away or even scratch you.

Same thing with a woman, so practice your ability to touch women with delicate artistry

How to touch a girl tip #2: Touch her as if you have all the time in the world

Most guys mess up with girls and make them feel creeped out because they're in a hurry. The girl can tell that the guy is after something - sex.

Even if the touch is brief, the sense of timelessness can linger with her if you touch her with presence.

If you can use your touch to lead her out of her mind, the busy day, and the stress and tension of life into a realm of timeless pleasure, then you will become a haven for her.

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