This is why many women will choose to be with "bad boys" although many of them reap the emotional havoc from the lack of nurturing and commitment. Many women stick around despite of abuse because their primal attraction mechanism for an alpha male has been fired off.
Many women still desire to be "taken" because an alpha male can take her while beta males hesitate, check around, and ask for permission. However, if they could pick, they would choose to have a "bad boy" who is deeply connected to them emotionally.
Developmentally, a women's emotionally sensitivity is especially heightened because she needs to have the almost psychic ability to sense whether a man is connected to her emotionally. Any time she has sex, on a primal and biological level, she can get pregnant.
If the man is not emotionally connected to her, then he will not be there for her and she could die during childbirth, or at the very least be stuck with taking care of and providing for her child by herself for the next 10+ years. All of this pain and suffering can result from one simple decision and one moment of mis-judgement of a man's character.
As a result of these intense evolutionary pressures, most women have super antennae hard wired into their DNA for alpha male qualities and emotional acuity that can judge whether most guys make the cut within the first 15 seconds.
So regardless of whether you are rich or poor, good looking or plain, if you can master the art of becoming an emotionally mature alpha male, solid and confident in knowing that you can handle yourself in any situation and develop emotional depth, connection, and refinement, you can light up a woman's primal attraction circuitry like a Christmas tree!
This is great news for you because amplifying your primal masculine energy and mastering the art of emotional intimacy are both learnable skills that can take you from being a complete failure with women to being a rock star.
I know, because I was way overweight with English as a second language who couldn't get any prom dates throughout high school and couldn't get laid through college. And now, having had to learn from the ground up, I have dated some of the most gorgeous and amazing women in the world from Budweiser models and models with 2 story pictures hanging from trade centers.
You might be asking yourself, what can I do right now to develop the tribal leader and emotional connection qualities?
One of the best ways to begin to develop yourself into an alpha-male is to begin tapping into your physical power. Work out, get into a competitive sport, learn a martial art.
The sexiest way to channel all this energy is in choosing and claiming of your woman so that you would be willing to die to protect her.
To further develop your ability to create emotional depth with your woman, you have to first follow the ancient axiom, "Cemet Nosce", "Know Thyself". Write down the answers to these questions:
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