3. The law of recognition Everyone wants to be recognized for their accomplishments and as an individual. Do something so people will remember you. Don’t be outlandish or abusive, reach out to people in a kind and comforting way. If it’s your doctor, boss or anyone you want to be remembered by, greet them with warmth and caring. If appropriate, give them a personal gift. Something special you made, just for them. Every time they see that special gift, they will remember you and when you come into their presence, they will remember who you are. You have developed a closeness, a relationship beyond the traditional boundaries. I make canes, and I make a unique cane especially to give to those who I want to be remembered by. They appreciate the gesture and they remember me the next time I see them. They open up, to a deeper connection and more meaningful relationship.

4. The law of Manipulation Many people go through life manipulating others for personal gain. Manipulation is a deceptive act and as such is destructive in nature. People manipulate each other without realizing it. It’s a form of getting one’s own way. Coming out on top, so to speak. A child sulks, a spouse gives the silent treatment, a boss threatens, all are ways to control a particular situation. Girls manipulate boys because they know they can. Boys manipulate girls for dominance. Husbands manipulate wives because they need to be the leader. Wives manipulate husbands because they need position. Everyone is manipulating someone to sustain their own uniqueness. Don’t fall into this trap. Manipulation is not a trait of a winner.

5. The force of Character Who are you? What lies at the heart of your existence? How are you portraying yourself to others? Are you a joy to be around or do people shun you? Character is the outward expression of an inward life force. The natural thing to do is mirror Godlike qualities in your mannerisms but, we do not live in a natural environment. Our environment is contaminated and we are also. Unfortunately our character is derived from a world point of view. You must be radiant, caring and outward in your involvement with others.

Wealth is only a mindset It’s not about wealth or fame, but rather it’s about you and who you are. You are at the center of this series of articles. We could go into the mechanics of success but it would do no good without you as a receptor. Perhaps you are already a super good person, and if you are I commend you for it. Unfortunately most people are motivated by outside stimuli and they wither and rot inside. They can’t understand why they aren’t happy. Why they are continually faced with problems with family and relationships. Fix your eyes on your inner self and approach life like today is your last day. What are you going to do to hold close each precious moment, each relationship, each experience?

It’s the little things that matter Treasure the taste of fudge or the glimmer of the sun on water or the many other things that make life worth living. When you see your child take his/her first step or feel the warmth of your spouse next to you when you roll over in the bed, embrace these moments because they are what it is all about.

Happy Trails

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