Some of our greatest leaders were swindlers and thieves. Why aren't today's youth given the same chance?
"If your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more and become more, you are a leader." ~ John Quincy Adams
As I sit to write this article I find myself being reminded of a young lady (though she would never call herself that) whom I know. She’s a classic anti-leader. In fact, her leadership qualities are so strong that she could easily be the next Pierre Elliot Trudeau if she so desired.
It’s wonderful when you have a group of students come forward and volunteer for leadership roles in your school. It’s great to see them express their ‘type A’ personalities in such a positive way. However, they always tend to be from one or two social groups and don’t represent a good cross section of the school population.
There are leaders among every group of students. Think of it this way, someone has to make the decision of what to do Saturday night when everyone else is sitting on the fence saying "I dunno, I’ll do whatever man." For various reasons, these students will not take on formalized leadership roles in their schools, perhaps they don’t feel they are good enough, they don’t know anyone else in ‘that circle’, or they just don’t see themselves as a leader.
These are the students who need to be cultivated because they have the unique ability to influence their peers. They see the school with its social and political hierarchy in a different way; and, if you’re lucky, they will tell you their views. These are the students who, when taught to communicate effectively and develop their leadership skills, can bring about massive change - if you let them. These are the anti-leaders. I use this term because their ideas usually are outside of the mainstream. They are ‘painted with a different brush’ and not typically considered leaders. But it is their ideas that have the seeds to radical change and they are the ones who will truly make a difference - not only in your school but in our world.
Let’s have some fun by comparing the qualities of a drug dealer and those of a gang leader with those of a student leader. Drug dealers and gang leaders may be extreme examples, but they are the most powerful leaders in your school. Drug dealers and gang leaders are using and honing their leadership skills all day, every day.
Job requirements for a gang leader: • Inspiring and motivating speaker • Strong personality • Good people management skills • Goal oriented • Understands the needs of others • Good decision making skills • Good team builder • Risk taker • Effective communicator • Confident
Job requirements for a drug dealer: • Good at math • Good organizational skills • Knows the law • Good at sales and up selling • Responsible (meeting clients at set times) • Excellent negotiation skills • Understands the needs of others • Good decision making skills (not on choice of career though) • Good team builder • Risk taker • Effective communicator • Confident
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