How To meet Bartenders –Part two

Welcome to part two for picking up bar staff and bartenders while they’re working.

So you’ve made ordered a drink from the hottest bartender there like I said right??

Okay …

That’s the easy part done. Great work!

You’ve made a statement rather than a question yes? This is very important as questions take value from people. If you want to ask a question always place a statement in front of it. For example "You look like you’re having an energetic night …So what’s been happening then?"

As opposed to "How’s your night … what has been happening?"

This idea behind this is to make yourself stand out from all the other guys, and you will by making a statement rather than just requesting a bourbon and coke.

Most guys just order a drink and walk away wishing they could at least start a natural conversation with the hot bartender, she’s standing there with her radiance and every guys eyes deadlocked on her, she’s bored as usual and don’t let the high energy attitude fool you.

Most bar girls are envying everybody else who are having a great time with their friends, who are on the dance floor and who don’t have to work while she’s stuck there behind the bar until 3am serving drinks.

So you’ve started the conversation and made a statement about her (see part one)

The keynote here is to engage her emotionally rather than logically, speak philosophically and not about facts i.e. the WORST thing you could say is just:

"How’s your night?" "How long have you been working here"

These are instant state killers and she’ll pigeon hole you in the "average guy" category in a heartbeat.

So you want to be emotional and bring about her emotions when you talk to bartenders and to do this you need to at least say something other than your drink order.

Like I said it doesn’t matter what you order just as long as you order it from the hottest bartender there.

I love saying this to bartenders: "Did you know I read this study on bartenders, apparently if a girl is a bartender with blonde hair and tall then she’s extra conversational, loves chatting to cute guys, and sometimes she tells lies to men, tell me is that true because I think it is …"

Her: "hehe no that’s not true"

Me: "Well there you go you’re lying already … It is true!"

Me: "You look as though you’re having a fun time what’s the most exciting, life changing event that’s happened tonight … besides talking to me"

If you’re with a mate have a bit of fun and say: "You know what I’d love to do to you… I want to drink baileys from your belly button in candlelight and make hot, sweet passionate love to your lips… didn’t you hear me? I was talking to you Paul!"

Me: "Man he never listens to me anymore!.. it’s like he doesn’t respect me anymore and just uses me for my hot body I’m not just a walking sausage okay Paul!"

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