Can we talk? ... Just the two of us? … Great!

Why do ANYTHING? …. I mean REALLY.

Aside from a few "creature survival" realities, like water, air, warmth, basic nutrients, etc, we actually have a tremendous amount of choice in how we humans spend our time – especially if we have chosen to simplify our lives.

My strong recommendation is to …

DO THAT WHICH RESONATES WITH YOUR JOY!

This is the best indicator we have that we are "on-track" with regard to being and honoring the "Love that we are".

I have noticed that when I have the faith and courage to do this, not only do I feel better, but a "ripple of goodwill" seems to spread into my world … and mysteriously my entire world seems to work better! I hit the green lights; unexpected fun opportunities show up; deals I have been working on either work out – or something better shows up. I think you get the idea.

This all sounds so simple. Why does it seem so hard for many of us?

In short, we’re stuck in our heads – cut off from our Hearts (and this may have been going on for so long, we don’t even know it)!

Let’s take a look at some signs that you (or someone you know) may be stuck in their head:

Worrying a lot; Super-long "To-Do" lists; Trying to be "perfect"; Being attached to pleasing others; Pressure in your head; Shoulders up toward your ears; Holding your breath or breathing shallowly.

Is it possible to do a "temporary head by-pass" and begin to re-connect with our Hearts? Many people have been helped by taking a few deep breaths, imagining an inward "smile" with your eyes and mouth, and opening up to the four following questions:

If you absolutely knew that you had only 6 months to live and would be in wonderful health for those 6 months, what in your life would you change? What would you start doing; stop doing; do more of; do less of; do differently; where would you go; who would you communicate with; what would you say or ask; what might become more important to you; less important?

If someone you completely trusted told you they would give you $250,000/yr (tax-free and adjusted for inflation) for the rest of your life … and all you had to do was promise to follow your Joy … what might you do (see the prompting questions in (1)).

If you knew that no matter what you did, you would succeed, what might you attempt?

If you knew that no matter what you did, you would not fail, what might you attempt?

These four questions are designed to help you "get to the Heart of the matter"!

Begin in small ways. For example, if you want to spend some time in Hawaii, call a travel agent or go on the internet and find some beautiful photographs of Hawaii that make you feel really good. Tell your subconscious mind that you want to spend some time there (in ways that are totally satisfying and harmonious for your highest good and the highest good for all). Don’t even think about HOW this is going to happen. Just know that it is possible ("fake" the feeling for now if you have to) …. Give Spirit a "chance" to work with your conscious and sub-conscious mind on this. Just relax and be playful about it.

As you follow your Joy, if you are an entrepreneurial spirit, you will likely be drawn sooner or later to products and services you are really excited about – and you will want to share them with others. This desire can propel you to connect with others who can assist you on your journey.

Know that many have walked this Path before … and many will follow after you. A whole new world is waiting for you. Your "entry pass" is an alchemical blend of …

Desire, Faith, Courage, and a willingness to learn and be coached.

Let me know if I can be of help.

Your Friend Along the Way,

Kathy Bibby