Perhaps one of the most interesting and yet confusing aspects of dating is the ever elusive interpretation of body language. While the differences from individual to individual must be taken into account, there are many common traits, that if read correctly, can be an excellent way for a potential suitor to decide how to proceed.

Positioning: When a women spots a potential romantic interest at a social gathering she will often begin a series of subtle maneuvers which will allow her to be positioned in the direct line of sight of that interest. Depending on the physical features she wishes to present she will choose just the right seat or stance and often takes note of the particular effect of the lighting in that area. Much of what a woman is feeling can be determined by the way she chooses to display herself while waiting to attract the attention of her chosen interest. Low or open seating is often the favorite of those women who wish to display their legs; while at the same time women who are self conscious about that particular feature often choose a seat where their legs remain hidden. Hair is often rearranged, unless already styled in an immovable fashion, once a women finds her interest and this subtle playing of the hair, along with even a moment of eye contact can be seen as an invitation to approach. Many women are completely aware of what they consider to be their physical flaws or highlights and will chose to place themselves in a position that is flattering to both. An example of this might be the difference in sitting position between two women; one of which is proud of her abdominal area, the other who feels she is out of shape in that particular region of the body: one woman may chose to allow this area to be glimpsed, a subtle display of stretched out position that may even reveal a little skin, the latter, being more self conscious will choose to hide this area whenever possible with clothing or other objects that block it from view such a pillow or blanket. One of the most important aspects of positioning is how the woman is engaged, either in conversation or some activity that will allow her to observe her interest without appearing to take too much notice of that person. Some women find a more direct approach appealing and will continue to make their glances obvious thus dropping any of the more subtle signs; however, as most people fear rejection it is far more common for women to continue on with actions that seemingly have nothing to do with attracting the attention. While these and many more subtle signs of invitation can be read from a woman’s particular movements, equally as important are the signs of dismissal. Often when a women has no interest in her potential suitor she will display outwardly both in facial expression and in body language that she no longer wishes to engage in conversation or activities with that person. Probably the most common and well know is the action of folding arms; an almost sure sign that something is amiss with the person. Lack of eye contact or a purposeful look away if eye contact is made can be a sign of dismissal, though at times this action can be caused by embarrassment rather than lack of interest. The deliberate positioning that faces away, placing the suitor at the back can also be an indication of lack of interest; this action removes the suitor from view and indicates that the suitor’s actions are inconsequential to the lady.

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