The Walk: Most women however graceful (sometimes not at all,) have a different way of walking that can easily reflect their moods or their subconscious intentions. Generally, the swaying of hips and long, languid movements can be read as an indication of interest. Typically women tend to move in slower and more calculated ways when they have found a person nearby that they consider attractive, though one might be yet unsure as to which person is the subject of interest, when a women moves in this way a potential suitor should remain observant for more signs that their advances might be welcome. In direct contrast, brisk, hurried movements often indicate that a women has not noticed any person’s of interest and is therefore unconcerned with appearing more delicate or feminine; these harder, less relaxed ways of walking can be a sure sign that any advancement will be quickly dismissed, though the cause may have nothing to do with the individual and may be caused by some other distress that is taking place.

Distress: Under stressful situations women tend to slouch, hide their eyes (especially if brought to tears,) and generally move in hurried, clumsy movements. However, this is not necessarily, though it may seem so, a sign that an approach is unwelcome; in fact many women use the "damsel in distress" act to attract potential suitors. Even in today’s society, where equality amongst the sexes is a topic much discussed and thought about, many women still instinctually take on more cliché feminine traits when attempting to attract a suitor. These actions should not be taken as a sign of weakness so much as perhaps a sign of insecurity about how to approach a person of interest. If a problem is presented by physically displaying the signs of stress and the suitor is then attracted by coming to the aid of the lady and offering to help, the awkward approach can be avoided altogether as the two people begin to discuss the issue at hand. One should always keep in mind that assuming a lady’s intentions are to attract the attention of suitor maybe a gross miscalculation and further advancements after the offering of aid may be rebuked quite fiercely; however, to ignore that this distress tactic is sometimes used to lure a person in would be just as much a mistake: once help is offered one need simply observe the body language of the lady after the problem is resolved to know whether or not further companionship is being sought after.

Touch: Once engaged in a conversation many movements can take place that indicate attraction; a subtle pat on the back or a reassuring touch of the hand can be subtle ways that indicate a woman feels comfortable and may have romantic interest. However, before one attempts to approach or converse with a woman there can be subtly touches to objects in her surroundings that act as mock touches of the person in which she is interested. Some of the more overt and well known of these interactions have a great deal to do with the mouth and one can often assume, especially if eye contact is made during these actions, that a physical attraction is taking place and an approach is not only welcome, but practically being demanded. More subtle signs that a woman maybe attracted to someone might be how she handles other objects within her reach; lighter more delicate touches may simply be her natural way of moving, but often if these touches, or subtle caresses of objects are intermingled with eye contact they can be an indication that she is open for an approach and considering the idea of being touched.

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