Is the road to your relationship marked with problems. Every couple experiences tough times. But, if you are willing here are 3 paths to reclaim a relationship.

Often it is the simplest little things that aggravate us. And it seems our partner knows, and uses to her advantage, every one of them.

Usually the other person is totally oblivious they are part of the equation. After all what’s leaving the toilet seat up going to hurt, or spending part of the grocery money on those great shoes?

Little things do add, up and they count, when it comes to relationships. That’s why our first tip has to do with communication.

1. Communication. Ladies you have to talk with him about that toilet seat. Let him know why it is important to you. And, guys sit down with her and agree on how you "both" are going to use your money.

It is a really good idea to have a night out…that’s with each other. And, that means no kids. This gives you a chance to spend some time together, talk about all those things that are on your heart and just enjoy each others company.

Remember you fell in love by spending alone time, that’s how you keep love alive.

2. Be forgiving. Now that we are talking, realize it is not all your lover’s fault. Take stock of your own actions. It’s easy to feel like every thing is against you and your partner just doesn’t care. They really do care and would be glad to show it if you would give them a chance.

When your partner comes up with the newest and latest quirk that drives you mad, look for the cause. It could be a problem at work, maybe they are just wore out.

3. Be honest. Maybe this should be in front? If you are not honest in your relationship you will not have a relationship some day. Sometimes we are less that truthful with our mates because we are trying to protect ourselves from emotional pain. When in truth if we are straight forward with others about our feelings they are much more likely to be responsive in the way we desire. So, both partners win in the end.

Building a partnership is hard work and requires us to change some of our pet ways of doing things and being a little vulnerable. But, the heart to heart relationship you build between you will last a lifetime.